The telling signs.......

She suspects that her husband is acting fishy recently, and she wants to find out could it be that her gut feeling is playing tricks on her, or her suspicion is getting the better of her and she is confused about it.

As a friend, she shared with me her dilemma and confusion and asked me as a married man if i could enligthen her about her suspicion that her husband is cheating on her. The first question she asked me was point blank " how can you tell if your spouse is cheating on you?" i simply told her, it is very simple and she was like gawking at me with disbelief and i said" As long as your spouse behaves opposite to his or her usual self then there is something fishy about it"

She asked me to elaborate and i just said as partners we should be able to tell if our partner is acting strangely of late or not, for an instance if he (i just say he for an example and i am not discounting the fact that ladies do cheat too) suddenly becomes very conscious about his appearance, the way he looks, the shirts he wears, the hair he styles of which it never occurs to you that he would take notice of all this before, that's the telling the sign.

And suddenly he complains about the way you look, the dress that you wear, the cellulite on your tighs, the perfume that you use, the frequency of sex has dwindled and how that little flaw would turn him off then you should know that he has you as a target to compare someone with, that's the telling sign too.

Brusquely,she suddenly raised her voice at me, saying something like this " you man are always the same, none is good, cant seem to be loyal and always think we woman are the one to blame and the reason for you alll to cheat" i can understand her outrage at this juncture, and meekly she apologized for here sudden outburst.

I was trying to pacify and assuring her that things are not that bad, and she could be wrong with her suspicion and all. Really i just hate to tell a lady friend of what to do in this scenario, neither can i tell her not to do anything, it is perplexing.

Lastly, i just told her to play Sherlock Holmes or Pink Panther to look out for the signs, but as friends, there's so much i can do. I left her with my sincere concern and telling her to change all that needs to be changed, including herself, to talk instead of fight, to love instead of to loathe.

Note : I sincerely hope the next time she calls, it will all be rosy news to me.

P/S : When was the last time you showered praise on your spouse, something like "you still look so gorgeous,dear"
P/S :

A night to be remembered........

Last saturday was the wedding of my nephew Deon and his lovely wife, it was a small scale wedding reception where only relatives and closed friends were invited, it was mostly family affair.

I was demostrating to the guests, how to love your partner with loads of hugs and kisses,,hahaha Love Guru i was), not exactly, i was only trying to entertain the guests and put some fun into the dinner by making myself a scarificial lamb on the alter, so that everyone else could have a laugh when the lamb was slaughtered

Lips locking with my wife for the first time infront of 100 odd people, and i truly enjoyed it as well. Sorry Deon, your uncle was not trying to outdo you, but i could kiss better than you do and that's the fact,ok, ok. dont fret, i am 44 and you are only 24, but the time you get where i am now, i bet you could be 100 folds better than i am, i bet my bottom dolloar on that, but then again, you can only kiss one.

Managed to patch things up a little here and there with my eldest sister (standing 2nd on the right and the love of her life, wishing them happy ever after as well)

My second sister Iris with her son (the groom), that day was sure the happiest day of her life, seeing your child getting married.

My oldest nephew Ernest (the yellowed hair, and the the one i have not showered enough love upon when he was younger) standing next to his girlfriend Loiusa (of German parentage), do these brothers look alike?

My youngest sister standing next to my mother who was smiling as if she had just had a windfall, you cant blame the old lady for the joy, i guess seeing your grandson getting married is every old folk's dream, and soon she will have her first great grand child delivered to her door stop,to her it is going to be another god send

I was holding Ivy's hand in the gesture of telling her and accepting her formally to our family, and assuring her that being her new uncle, i will be there for them when they need me.

I dont like going to wedding, but i can tell you this, attending the wedding of my nephew Deon was exceptional for the following reasons, 1) it was my first nephew's wedding 2) I could see that my family were all immersed with true happiness and joy 3)i was to note that my family is getting bigger 4) yes i would soon becoming a grand uncle.

P/S : Once again, my most sincere wish to my nephew Deon and Ivy that happiness is always attainable if your hearts so desire

Card me out, will ya?

I love going shopping with my wife,just the two of us, hand in hand, enjoying the air conditioned atmosphere, and doing what we like best..... shopping.

But there is one thing that i loathe so much when entering any shopping complexes,one will see a bee-line of these credit cards vendors, armed with their gears of getting people to signing up with them, most often than not, one is not easily eluded from these credit card agents ever so alertness.

I always try to be nice and declining them subtly and walk off, but there are incidences whereby, the credit card vendor continue to walk abreast with you to a distance and keep harping you to sign up and trying to entice you with all sorts of useless free gifts, and if you still persist in saying no, they quickly change their sales tactic to be more begging (sorry for using this term)they would say something like this" Please lah, sir,just sign up and you can cancel it after six months or please sing up lah sir,i have not closed any sales today, i missed out on my target"

I am sure you guys have once or far too many times faced with the same situation, please share with me, what one or two incidents that really erupted you into a burning inferno.

P/S : I loathe is so much, when people dont act it professionally, you've got a job to do but i've got mine too

Marriage comes early or late,, does it matter?

My status in the customery Chinese hierarchy standing will be altered entirely tomorrow, sounds so serious, does'nt it? Dont fret, i am only trying too be a bit bombardstic since the weekend is here. But then again, it is still the truth, because comes tomorrow, one of my many nephews will be walking down the aisle, and from the status of uncle, i shall be ascended to the status of grand uncle,(if you know what i mean, my nephew calls me uncle, and who shall call me grand uncle?)

This nephew of mine is only 24, and i sincerely hope and pray that he will have a wonderful marriage for the many many years to come, and on top of that, i hope my nephew and his wife are fully prepared to weather any storm that may arise because i strongly believe marriage is not always a bed of roses and this leads me thinking about so many issues about marriage, how to sustain a marriage, how to make marriage works and etc.

I am a strong believer in keeping the marriage vow, especially the part where it says something like this "for riches, and poor, for sickness and for health, for sorrow and for joy and till death do us part" but is getting married at the age of 24 makes any difference with one getting married at the age of let say 32 ? I guess it does to certain extent, especially when it comes to finance and all the enticements. Quite a number of my friends(my male friends) who got married at early 20s or mid 20s have suffered marriage breakdown, most often than not it is the guy's problem that involved extra marital affairs, and that is of course something to do with sex.

May be we may say that the world has changed, and sex and everything about it is not a taboo anymore, i may just say sex is as easy as getting into 7/11, pick up a condom or two, and you can have them used on someone, besides that at that age if you are slightly nice looking, suave and a sweet talker, it can even be whole lot easier.So to keep marriage alive and lasting when getting married at that age requires more self control,self restraint and self discipline, and i bet it will be harder at this age.

Secondly,when it comes to finance, if you are an average joe and suddenly if you are faced with different financial responsibility and you were not at all prepared for, arguments, misunderstanding and whole lot more, and all this will surely and slowly put a dent on the marriage.

I am not being pessismistic about marriage, i am just being pragmatic, we all have to be taught about marriage, the good sides and the bad sides, talk about sex that kills and sex that heals and lastly we need to be taught of the scaredness of marriage.

As far as i am concerned, marriage is like getting into the maze,it is easy to get it,but it takes a lot of trials and errors to come out and sex with a "faithfull partner" is like playing yo-yo, keep playing, and keep coming out with new and exciting tricks and it shall continue to be exciting till your dying day hahahahahahah.

P/S : Congratulation to Deon and Ivy, i know you guys can have a wonderful marriage if your heart desire

Dont mess with my friend,

I was told by claire (My fellow blogger friend) sharing with me how a psycopath, mentally deranged fellow left some unwarranted, nasty, unehtical, uncivic,vulgal and foul comments in my another fellow blogger friend's blog, so i went to check it out there,indeed the comments were not inviting at all.

Even i've never met this blogger friend(the one under attack) i immediately i showered him with my sincere support there, that's what i thought i should do, to lend support to my cyber friends.

We bloggers know, we sometimes can be inundated with nasty comments but then again i guess we are all prepared, but the saddest thing that can happen to us is that those buggers attack us behind the veil, behind anoynimity and snipe at us with their mother f**king comments.

We respect the freedom of speech,but we despise cowards who try to curtail our right to freedom of speech, we respect their freedom of speech but then again, they should do it like we do, be EXPOSED

To you Kev at http://www.kevdublog.blogspot.com/ , my support is solid and unwavering, and standind up for our right to freedom of speech, and to you the Attacker Pukima ( i thought that's what you call yourself) i respect your freedom of speech too, but do it like we do, ok?

P/S : If you dont like us bloggers, it is ok, we appreciate your comments (kind or otherwise) but let us thank you in real person,OK?

GOD's Issues?

Guys, please help me to find some answers to the following questions as popped up by my smart alec friends about God and its existence, just a few ones, but i really found them to be some kind of mind boggling too.

1)Would you change your current God, if there are others Gods who can fulfill your most dire needs?

2)How can you be so very sure that there is God, please dont say it is because of "faith"?

3)If human can err, how can we be so sure what written by Mark, Luke and John can be flawless?

4)Why do human race keep fighting over God when HIS intention is good?

5) Why do we need God if our conscience and our intentions are good?



P/S : No arguing please, solely your opionions, it doesnt matter if you're pious or heretic

My First strand of hair

It is always very nice as far as i am concerned to spend the last few moments of the evening before i retire to sleep together with my sons, we would usually play,jokes, talk, share, laugh and we really enjoy ourselves during these moments.


Believe or not, at times my lovely sons would come out with some ingenius games and names during these times we share together. Just the other night, my yongest son (Marvell) came out a game which he clevery called it "RAMPAGE" where he would put me down in between the two of them, and start tossing to whichever side possible, and we would always end up laughing and laughing.


But sometimes some serious yet funny topics would just come out as well, for example, last night,out of a sudden, my eldest son(Jovial) asked me "Papa, when will my first strand of pubic hair come out?) and cheekily i replied " do you see it coming out already?", he followed "No" then i reciprocated"Please let Papa know,when it does come out,ok" and naively he said " yes papa", and we just had a great laugh out of this.


Seriously, you might not think what i'd shared is anything funny at all but as a father to these two lovely,wonderful boys, i know i would treasure every moments spent with them.

P/S : I could stay awake,just to hear your breathing,watch you smile while you're sleeping.

Now everyone knows you..Susan Boyle

Guess i could be as guilty as everyone else if i were to be there in the audience in that reality show"Britian Got Talent" when this 47 year old lady, clad in a house coat liked dress, not a single part of hers could be considered singer material like the previous winner Leona Lewis came on the stage, you could literally see the audience's expression, none seemed to favour this 47 old lady.

I checked Susan Boyle out from Youtube, when she came on to the stage, she got kind of scorn at, looks of disbelief filled the whole auditorium, it was as if someone was saying "come on, go home Susan, dont make a joke out of yourself". To be frank, i was totally amazed with the self confidence that she exuded before she started singing given the fact that the situation was not kind to her, she kept smiling and cracked a little joke here and then.(Go check her out to identify with wha i say)

When she finally sang, the whole audience was captivated, enchanted, and now they knew that they were wrong about Susan Boyle, her performance without style and pomp,only with her angelic voice truly wooed the crowd over.

Now the question is, can Susan Boyle be as famous as Leonna Lewis, will any record company willing to sign her on, producers to invest in her, to transform her into Elaine Page(that's Susan Boyle's dream of becoming another Elaine Page),the conclusion is will you and i buy Susan Boyle's album if it did come out when all the hype and sensation about Susan Boyle finally fading away.

She is definately not William Hung, she has the god's gifted voice, i hope someone out there is willing to make her fly.

P/S : Can we really be ourselves like Susan Boyle did?

This friday, a dedication for you my dear...

My wife is going away from for 2 days, about 450 kms the distance, so my friday would not be the same without her, kind of lonely though, thank GOD, i have still got two boisterious and loving boys be at my side.

There is a Chinese saying that says " A temporar separation(not because of a fight,one,ok?) feels lots better than the feeling of just got married, but as for me, her sojourn will really makes me miss her more, and long to be with here the soonest.

So, this friday, i will digress from my usual friday's stuff, and as i just got back from a drink with my friends, totally not enjoying myself without her by myself, rushed back, and just wanting to pen down my thoughts about her.

It has been 13 years now, that we have been married, and i really thank god for such a wonderful gift from god in the form of my wife, sometimes words just cant really express what we feel inside,but i know deep inside me, she is the one for me now, tomorrow, next Christmas and many many Christmas to come.

I just really want to say,,,,,,, I Love You. Girl (that's my term of endearment)

P/S, Truly, Madly, Deeply in love with you

Who says i cant do it........

Let you know a little bit more about myself, you see i have this uncanny way of haggling and negotiating untill i could get something of which many would hava given up trying...i am not a sucker for cheap frills nor am i miser, i just feel that if i could get a little more by speaking a little, prostesting a little, complimenting others a little, pressuring others a little and why not.

Just last year,my wife subscribed to the Broadband service from Maxis of which she was required to be contracted for one year service, any termination of service before the expiry date of the contract would result in a penalty fees which they beautifully term as "handling fees" of RM200.

To be frank, after not so long using the said service, both my wife and i were utterly dismayed by the slow internet connection provided, so half way through, we decided to call it off and wanting to terminate the line for good, that's when the battle began.

We went to Maxis office, we were told there was no way the handling fees of RM200 could be waived, i demanded to speak to the higher rung personal, was given the same answer. Just when my wife was feeling distraught and deranged with the whole running around and not getting the result, she was ready to give up the fight and to pay the RM200.


So i took this mission upon myself, i called the toll-free HQ, spoke to the person in charge, i asked the girl, can she make decision on this issue, if she cant then i would not want to elaborate and demanded that i'd speak to the person concerned, but seriously up to this point, it was still to no avail, and i decided to my last resort before i'd give up.

I wrote an email up to the highest rung possible and defended my decision in terminating my line, and telling them how faitful we have been their customer and this is not the way that we should be treated by slapping us with a RM 200 fees for the service not up to the mark.

Like i said, you fight a little, protest a little, sweet talk a little, complement others a little, the chances are you stand to win the fight, so in this case i emerged a victor not the vanquished. So for the RM200 saved, i would go and buy myself a fancy necklace i've long wanted.

P/S : It is not over till it's over and done with,, keep trying

A little is BIG for them..............

She greeted me with a broad smile, and hurriedly calling out"botak, botak" (baldie, baldie), as i was waiting for my son in the school, then she sauntered towards me and said "thank you, botak, my son got improved lah" and then i said "why you thank me for your son's improvement or rather what had i contributed to his success?" she replied "got lah, i did what you told me to do, and it worked"

I was like lost with her compliment, she was all excited telling me the whole story and i was ready to hear from her about her son and my contribution and she began narrating......and then i remembered what i shared with her last year, and i want to share with you guys here, only my thoughts though.

I love talking to those ladies whilst waiting to pick my son up from school, usually our topics of the day mainly revolve around children, study, school works, grades and whatever not. One of those ladies i remember was telling me one day, no matter how many tuition classes she gave to her boy, the child never seemed to make any improvement, always at the bottom 5 rung( in the class of 40 students)

So, i was telling her to try out one thing, take the last position he achieved in the class, which was 35, i told her to encourage her boy to do a little extra harder to hit 29,30 or even 34th in the class, and she almost laughed out nut(i remember) and she was telling me what difference did it make between 34and 35, and i meekly told her wait and see, it would be a lot of difference,i begged her to try out this exercise of encouraging her child to move up one or two position from the bottom 5. But that's just one thing she had to promise me to do if her child managed to move up one or two or three notches, she had to praise, getting very excited, jumped for joy and treat him to KFC or McD as if he had scored straight As.

The last i heard from her, the child had indeed achieved more than what expected of him and she told me the boy now is kind of happy studying, and she thanked me and not forgetting to ask me what is the secret, did i pray for him(in fact not at all), i just humbly told her, if you could accord a child with praises, compliment, getting excited with them as a parent even he or she could only move a notch from the rock bottom, it would spur the child to work even harder, meaning the child acknowledges that yes indeed he has made progress, the child believes that he has the potential to make more progress, to leap further from the small steps and most of all he loves the praises instead of being called stupid or something like "why you always fall under the bottom 5" instead of telling him this" son i am so proud of you, you moved from 35 to 34, see i told you you could do it"

The same thing happened to my eldest, he was at 32 last exam, i was not at all mad at him, i told him that he in fact he could try to move a few notches up, if he tried a little harder and i would appreciate the effort that he'd made, and the result came in the most recent exam, he leaped to position no 12th, to tell you the truth, i was feeling as if he had achieved No 1 in the whole school, i was elated, excited and so happy for him.

Again, the same thing happened to my youngest(marvell), he was at No 3 last exam, i accorded him the same cheers and excitement to that of my eldest, i told him that in fact he could move a notch higher if he wanted and i said to him always that he was the smartest boy, and the result came, truly he went from 3rd to 1st. kudos to both my sons

We as parent might not be satisfied with the little effort our child had made but to the child it really means a world to him, he would feel on top of the world only to know that his parent would bring him down, and kill off the zeal, and that's very detrimental to all these little angels.


P/S: Say it nice if you want the child to try

He is looking at you, man..........

It was absurd, awkward,moronic and i was mother fucking mad, really felt like hitting somebody, simply because somebody was gawking at me when i was in my total nakedness, and may be my genital property is not as big or as long, as hunky or even as appetizing as yours, if i got you next time, you will be finished.

My Jovial (my eldest) and i love going for a swim at a public paying pool on Sunday morning when the sun is just right to give us just the right tan, and yesterday outing was no exception. We were enjoying and frolicking in the pool, having a good time in the tool, somehow or rather i was feeling uneasy when i noticed this guy was trying to exhange glances with me, initially trying to be polite, i obliged but as the glances got kind of "awkward", i shunned him totally.ok, to cut the story short.

Done with swim, went to the changing room with Jovial, as we entered, there he was, giving me that silly smile again, of which i subtly acknowledged. As my son and i were ready to take off our trunks to get our shower, this weirdo came out from his shower cubicle, and acted non-chatlantly but was looking at this couple of naked father and son.

As soon as we're done showering, we came out, still naked and as i was outside the cubicle drying my self, he too came out from his, whispering at still kept looking at me while i was drying myself up, he was not just looking, he was zeroing at my "G" spot, and giving me that funny smile again, i was damn by this juncture, and i called out my son to hurry out, and i raised by voice saying something like this into the thin air" i feel like hitting somebody"

I dont get it, why cant i be naked in a all men's changing room, doing what i should do it there without being looked at by some weirdos, what is that that i have he doestn have?

P/S : RESPECT

A missed Friday's assingment...

Well, i missed my pledge this Friday, and it is already Sunday now, but then again man will have to do what he'd promised to do, even it is Sunday, it is still with no exception that i have to do like what i promised.



For this post, i love to promote 3 bloggers of whom one of them is my son, and the other two are one of my favourites,



1) Jen

2) Cleff

3) Jovial



Jen and Cleff are those wonderful lady bloggers who really speak their minds in what they strongly believe in for one, secondly, even if they have to use foul language sometimes, one will not be offended, the foul language used is to compound in what they truly believe. Lastly, If you are a lady, you should really check them out, in my opinion they will make you a bigot in what a woman should really be thinking.



And as for my son's blog, i guess one visit to his blog will surely bring some laughter to dispel your daily stress, secondly it reminds us that we were once a child too, and we should not be too hard on our children and lastly, if what he blogs about can be funny and childish, again it just tells us, we dont need to be too hard on ourselves to be happy too.



Please check them out here

1)jen

2)My son

3)cleff

P/S: If you happen to drop by here, please say hi to them,ya?

Mid Life crisis and men above 40.....

Like it or not, times waits for no man, like it or not, your youth was your yesteryear's pride and like it or not you cant turn 43 to be 34 and, like it or not you have more worries now at 43 than that of 34and finally like it or not my hairline is going south bound instead of north bound.

Over my morning coffee break with my breadfast buddies (all of them above 40,and all male. me being the youngest among all at 43) we were delving in the issues of mid life crisis and the worries of men of our age have. Each of us had to share their mid life crisis and the malaise fears and anything surrounding men above 40, and i will sum it all here for your reading pleasure.

Names withheld to protect each individual's privacy and any similiarity in the comments is mere coincidental....(Note,i have seeked their approval to share their stories)

Buddy A) Fearful of his wife's menopause thus reduces the frequency of their sexual activities and the change of his sexual desires, he wants more but he gets less of it. He said he tried hard to get the wife into the spur of THING, but she seems oblivious and he really feels the sense of unfullfillness sexually and he wanted to get the SHOTS outside but fearful of the guilt that might haunt him. He concluded that men above 40 dont like to have it "DIY", ludicrously he said the hands of men this age cannot connect well with the state of mind, and tend to retard the mind with the wrong signal from the hand( we had good laugh)

Buddy B) Having not enough money in the bank and the business not doing well and his high blood pressure is not doing him any good either, one child in the college, and the other one entering soon, to him "money is too tight to mention" is his real crisis. And for this buddy, having sex at the present state that he is in is like stoking a up fire in the rain, and as he divulged even hydrauric crane cant get IT all up, (again we had a good giggle)

Buddy C)Children not talking to him (having one mistress for about 7 years now) and money is not a problem for him but he is scared than he would be a desserted and destitute old soul if the children still cant forgive him, and he felt responsible for the second wife as well and on top of that, his health is not treating him well either.

Buddy D) Nothing seems to bother him, he is a lone ranger (single man), working for his brother in law, staying with the mother, can afford a session of binging every now and then, going for paid sex when his wallet is compounded with some extra cash, and really nothing bothers him, and he is the only one that has earned the right to calling the rest of us stupid that he reckons.

And he claims that among all, he is only one getting the full monty, not shackled by worries.

And lastly it is my turn) Worry about not having enough saved for children's education, kind of fearful of the same malaise faced by my Buddy A, (What should i do, if that happens to me), worry of not having quality sleep.

I guess life sure has its ups and downs, it is just that men above 40 tend to get more, and i try not to worry too much, trying to feel blessed to what i already have, and try to spread a little bit of love around, and try to blog a little bit more often.



When i hit my fifty, i want to look like this guy, Miu Kiu Wai in the 50'S, i picked my choice because all of us had to name a celebrity that we would want ourselves to be when we hit 50.
P/S; As age catches up on me, i hope to look a little more hunkier. God Bless Me

Please blow the candles for me,will ya? I am 1 today

Today marks the first anniversary of my Blogging days, yes it has been 365 days and i survived and i shall continue to survive because through this one year,i have come across many blogger friends whom i have never met and yet we share certain kind of bonding and affirnity.

Seriously,if it is not for the comments and the visits you guys given to me, i would really think i would not have survived this long lest talking about making money from blogging. I remember when i first started, i was so zealous about it, writing and writing, visiting and visitng, commenting and commenting, and when someone asking me to add him or her, i would so happily obliged,and back then my blog was filled with names and more names, some promised to visit back and some never did come back, some gave flowery comments with the flowers dying the next day, some said how much they love my blog of which i never saw their names again.

Like i said, along the way, those that have stayed and those have encouraged me with utmost sincerity, i love to tell you guys this " I truly appreciate it".

Blogging has indeed given me a lot of good feeling and it has given a lesson well learnt, one needs to give first in order to receive, therefore i will continue to visit you guys and leave some funny and sincere comments from what i read from your blog, and together will shall give one another our support and love for sure, love you guys...

So, please sing me a happy birthday 1 year old blogging song,will ya?

P/S, Let us be famous together,OK?

Why dont we turn off the radio(s)...........

I've always thought that radio was supposed to be entertaning, to cheer up your days, to bring your joy like the good old days,but i guess we just cant bring back the good old days anymore.

Listening to radio now seems more like frustration then relaxation, for one, they keep repeating the same songs at least 3 to four times a day, be it Hit, Mix, Light and Easy or even Red FM. Just the other day, when i decided to "throw it the towel" and giving up on listening to radio, i thought i might as well for the last time give our national English radio station (Traxx FM) a last chance, i changed that dial to Traxx, i breathed a sigh a relief at last i could listen to something unlike those formatted radio stations with repeated songs being played, Traxx does play good selection of music, different genres.

But my happiness was short lived,right on the dot of every hour, they broadcast the news, i was thinking to myself can there be so much news to be told, that they have to do it hourly, and i could say even the news content is kind of lopsided(if you know what i mean), and the way and the manner the deejays manning the show was nothing much to crave for.

Seriously, as far as i am concerned, there is just no one particular deejay that can be considered prominient,unlike those days, we had the likes of Yasmin Yusoff and Patrick Teoh with their antics and their ways of commanding attention from the listeners, we just got glued to them, i really think radios now are dead.

So, i guess i will hava to get my car CD player fixed and say Adios to listening to the radios with their repeating of songs and the silly jokes made by the deejays.

P/S: Looks like CD player kills the radio stars.............

Signed.....Yours cheekily

Another day is ended but i still cant sleep, thinking of what to write today,i began to cheek.........,i wish i could turn back the clock,bring the wheel of time to a stop...........looks like it is too late now, Friday is dawning,and i try faitfully and fervently as usual to cheer you guys up on every Friday so this friday i intend to do something a little different,and shall call it "Why You Should Be There "

On every Friday of this April, i will put up a blogger of whom in my opinion is good and worth your visit to his or her site. I shall give you only 3 valid reasons why i chose certain blogger to put in my "Why You Should Be There" In return if you really think my recommendation is worth spreading, then i sincerely ask you to allocate a small space in your next post to recommend that particular blogger and encourage your readers to visit his or her blog as well, but there is one thing you should do though, you should add another reason (just one) on top of my 3 valid reasons why you love to recommend that particular blogger,and let the numbers of reasons increase through out the week.


Ok, then if i can have your consent,let start the ball rolling (again,please dont treat this as a tag, i hate tagging)

For my first recommendable blogger, i shall pick Claire of http://www.reanaclaire.blogspot.com/ , and as promised me i shall table my 3 valid reasons to support my recommendation...

1)She is one blogger that truly amazes me with her tenacity of achieving her motto of "eat blog, sleep blog , talk blog" she is a real blog junkie. She puts up at least a post daily, sometimes it can run to (to the best of my knowledge) 9 posts in own particular day,going to her site makes you feel brand new each time you are there.

2)She is one person who is ever willing to share her knowledge with any rookie blogger, and she would go extra mile to help another fellow blogger.

3)Lastly she is loving and committed mother and a God fearing blogger.

So in order to make this "Why You Should Be There" intereting, i would allow you to differ from my recommendation and you can shoot me down by giving me another 3 valid reasons why that particular blogger is not worth visiting.

So please click Here to go to her blog.

P/S : Sometime it is good to blow the trumpet for someone nice

Down and out

Today i am sick



No Blog visiting, i am sorry
No Blog commenting, i am sorry
No Posting , i am sorry
No Saying hi, i am sorry

Rest in Peace....Leslie

6 years ago today 1st of April, i thougth it was an April fool joke prank when i heard over the radio station reporting the suicide of Leslie Chung or affectionally known as Koa Koa, but it turned out the report was confirmed to be true, and it was also my first time shedding tears for a celebrity,never had i done that before, somehow or rather the suicide of Leslie Chung was kind of unbearable for me then.

I never really had a favourite artist even since i was in my teen, but the emergence of Leslie Chung back then, i tell you i was hooked instantly to this wonderful and versatile artist, and whenever i was in kara-ok, my friends would request me to sing Leslie's song and mimic his dance moves. And there was always this particular song that i would sing and dance to (by popular demand of course ahem ahem) "Mo Sam Sui Mein" "No peace in the sleep" and i would just happily to oblige to their request for i really love Leslie Chung even untill now.

What a lovely star was born, sadly how short the lovely star stayed, he was none to compare, or none can compare, he was the master in what he did and what he did , simply masterpiece, his life was to entertain us, and in facts your songs had touched us.

P/S : The wind will continue to blow, your standard cannot be easily taken over,(Feng kai chu chui)