I am sorry Issac

I was looking back at the comments that you guys have left in my blog and I found one comment left by Issac that says something like this at the end of the comment." Bro, I realize that you no longer visit my blog,"is ok"

I felt bad when I read that comment, it was like this Issac does come by my blog periodically and leaving comments but in return I do not reciprocate by doing likewise and we have met up personally twice and I like this guy as well.

Let me say this though that indeed there are some blogs that I do not regularly visit,particularly those blogs about foods and those that promote "makan places" and those like sponsored posts,simply because I am not a food lover and it is just not me "doing things for the sake of doing things"

Sometimes I visit, have a look and "cabut" without leaving comments cos I know very well that if I comment, it would not be a "truthful one" it would be more like a "okay you rub my back and now let me rub yours"

Personally, I love reading those blogs that talk about April, May, Little Chi or Avery,those that share about.'how they wake up at the wrong side of the bed" those that telling me that she would "run at 5 am in the park when she went to Japan for holiday"

And those that kind of talk about their children, the relationship, the marriage and even the pregnancy and sometimes some kind of Black Dog Society and also not forgetting those that share the deeper side of them with the readers.

Therefore,please pardon me (if you do feel like I am kind of haughty already,please bear with me that I am not)

Have a great weekend and God Bless


P/S : Thank you and I am sorry

To me this is outrageous.....

I just can't believe it,when a friend told me that her daughter age 14 spent about RM120 a month in hand phone bill when a few friend were talking about kids and technology.

Surprisingly, this friend said it was quite "reasonable bill" as far as her daughter phone bill is concerned,she divulged that some kids spend even more.

Please tell me for I am really lost here, probably you could say that I am still trapped in Flinstone's stone age era but seriously I was totally appalled at that kind of hand phone bill coming from a 1 years old girl and I am sure besides smartphone, probably she must be a real geek for having other gadgets as well.

Just wonder would you allow your children of age 14 burning such a phone bill?

P/S : If only money is that easy to make then how easy it is burned

小病是福

You know there is a Chinese idiom that goes something like this 小病是福，(it means when you are down with minor ailments,it is indeed a blessing)

I was down with mild fever, very bad cough for the past 4 days,(still recovering),truly it just reminded me that there could be nothing more important than "health" itself.

This is kind of impromptu blog "filler" that I am slightly all right now, I really want to make it a point to stay healthy and always in the pink of health with some efforts taken into consideration.

I hope that best of health to you too....take care now and God Bless

P/S : Please take good health of our body,it will do us loads of good

These men suck.................

Let me share with you this before I sign off for the weekend and also to testify that sometimes if not most of the times that men are the worst when it comes to "gossiping"

I was waiting for someone for tea break chat the other day, next to my table,seated two men,(about my age, i reckon) Then was a brand new BMW pulling over at the roadside, it was a shinny polished BMW,when it stalled, a beautiful young lady alighted from it,then I heard.

The following conversation ensued and exchanged between that two men seated next to me before that beautiful lady took her time and sauntering into the coffee shop.

One started by saying this," This girl must have gotten herself a rich boyfriend or she must be those that "being kept" by rich married men" then the other friend interjected," I think so also cos she looks so young and sure cannot afford a car like that, or may be coming from a rich family"

I was kind of stunned hearing those conversation for the fact that I personally knew this girl from that BMW, she was not "being kept", she was not from rich family and she was still single and very independent and most of all she was doing very well in her insurance business.

The eyes of that two men were following the girl and when she started waving me at me, these two men gave me a kind of look as if I was the one" keeping" this beautiful girl, I could read that from their "uncultured" and "uneducated" stares, then as soon as she seated next to me, I purposely acted "suspiciously" as if I was the "lady keeper" by pulling my chair closest to my dear friend than I deliberately raised my voice with this statement.

I said," You know the one you showed me was so good lah, I think I like it a lot, may be have to wait until my wife goes back to JB,then we can really sit down to do it again because I don't want my wife to know that I am interested with another one some more" I knew that my dear friend was lost with what I said,then to quell her confusion I added that we have got too much insurance already and my lovely wife might not like to buy another. You know I just wanted to floor those two guys with a slap on their faces. Ditto.

Now,don't you think men sometimes are worst gossipers and did you know even the Lord cautions us about gossipers, " A gossip betrays confidence, so avoid a man or a woman who talks too much"

Have a great weekend and God bless ya

P/S : Use our mouth to edify others instead

My salute to you...

A recent study conducted in Europe,divulging that more and more MNCs are hiring women as their top executives,mainly in those positions of the Os....CEO,CFO.COO and etc.

The study reveals that one of the important traits in the women that most men are lacking in, is the virtue of "Integrity" ,meaning women are more trustworthy, more reliable and more dependable and to that I truly agree.

I have read many successful stories of those high flyers women in the corporate setting, it is truly amazing that they could seriously juggle works and family without neglecting anyone of them, they may be down and out at times but they would I reckon get up,hit the road more easily than men. (trust me this is true)

I have seen those single mothers,how they strive and sacrifice for the family and bringing the children the best that she could ever endeavor for the sake of the family.

Today 308 marks the celebration Women's International Day,, my salute to you and I would like to end this with a John Lennon's song,aptly title "Woman"

Woman, I can hardly express My mixed emotions and my thoughtlessness
After all, I'm forever in your debt
And woman, I will try to express my inner feelings and thankfulness
For showing me the meaning of success

Ooh, well, doo doo doo doo doo. Ooh, well, well, doo doo doo doo doo

Woman, I know you understand the little child inside a man
Please remember, my life is in your hands, and woman Hold me close to your heart, however distant don't keep us apart After all it is written in the stars
P/S : The hand the rocks the cradle rules the world

It 's about you and no one else

The other day, I bumped into a friend in a coffee shop,instead of the normal exchange of niceties, he began by saying this to me," You "teruk " lah, how can an uncle like you dare to wear a pink short pants." I was like,"did you pay me not to wear pink short pants ? "

You know I met a wonderful lady from a dear friend's wedding the last weekend, she was originally from Penang but she'd been staying in Melbourne for over 35 years already,over the chat, I casually asked her,did she ever think of relocating to Penang,surprisingly and adamantly she said,"No way"

I then asked her why that she was so certain that returning to her good hometown of Penang never crossed her mind,plainly she said,she was happy there instead of here. Nobody would ever point a finger at her of the way she chose to dress but here is different. She can "bling bling" all that she wants and nobody would give her a stare.

Sometimes I really think we would miss out on LIFE,if we care so much of how people judge us,how would people think of us, we are so scared that people would laugh at us,if we behave otherwise than the norm.

We get stuck in a "dead relationship" because we are so afraid that people might think we are a "tramp" if we keep searching for one true love.

I like to dance very much and I really don't care if people were to give me the "one kind" look,"aiseh man, uncle like him also wants to shake like that" I just don't care, I love to wear outrageous colors paint, I like pink and red pants and I don't give a hoot of what others think of my fashion sense.

I like to run and sometimes I like to run bare chested and I don't care if people say as if I like to show off my body or whatever,(not that I have a body that you'd drool over) it is just that I like that feeling of care freeness.

Take fashion for an example,do you dress to feel good about yourself or do you dress up to make others feel good about you? Think about it ya......
I like this lady already at the first greeting she extended to me..Thank you for sharing Imey......

P/S : Our lives are not to be ruled by "KPCs"

" I will be all right in a few years time"

Jovial said this to me," Papa, you know lah, I am a teen now, a bit difficult but give me a few years, I will be all right, love ya"

I said to him, "Son, I am your father who loves you dearly, I will still have to tell you if I think you are wrong and I would love to see you growing up to be a fine young man"

P/S : Episode ended,curtain down and standing ovation

Miserably Me...............

I was sending Marvell to school this morning, upon arrival, I was already crying,he saw me crying,he too cried with me, before I bid "bye bye " him, I asked him to pray for me......he prayed

"Lord,please give my papa peace,and please help"ger ger" to turn over new leaf" I saw his tears, gave him a hug and said I love you"

I had nasty argument with Jovial this morning..................................and I am still trying to figure out the best of ways to handle my 15 years old boy......

P/S : I am still trying.........

One down and one more down....

Sometimes it is hard to look at things positively,when one after another of not so "nice event"taking place and I am talking about my work but I will take it positively still cos I believe "tough time never lasts,tough people do"

You see my brother who works for me,was granted two months Medical Leave due to his cancer treatment, so we were short handed and just when we thought we could handle well, was bombarded with another bad news, another worker of mine sprained his ankle and that rendered him immobile,(don't know for how long,not confirmed yet)

So please excuse me,if I have'nt found time to visit you ya.

P/S : Rainbow shall appear after the rain.............Amen

Of erectile dyfunction,oral sex and Godly wisdom

I was taking a stroll with Jovial in the garden this evening,as we were chatting away,out of sudden, I thought I could share with Jovial that sometimes things don't really seem what they are on the surface.

It was kind of coincidental as well, as the preaching of the church sermon on the Saturday service that we attended touched on the subject of having "godly wisdom." Picking up on that, I said to Jovial that we needed to pray more for the wisdom of God to take more place in our lives so that we can distinguish the good,the bad and the ugly. the genuine,the fake and the phony.

As were still on the said subject,I pointed to a story of a "bogus doctor" that molested girls ages ranging from 9 to 12 that happened in Singapore,then suddenly Jovial was telling me this," you know papa,this bogus doctor also suffered from erectile dyfunction" I felt liking asking him,"Jo,do you know what ED is? " But then again, I was too quick to continue by sharing with him that the "bogus doctor" also asked the girls to perform "oral sex" on him.

Then I asked Jo did he know what oral sex was, I thought he knew cos he knows ED but to my surprise,he was lost about it, he said it was about kissing, I then took a brief pause and began to explain to him what "oral sex" was really about.

Towards the late evening,as I was rereading the newspaper and as Jo was going through his "history "textbok, I showed him the pic of the "bogus doctor" then I asked him to explain to me what he understood about ED.

He said ED was about men not able to have sex cos having problem of erection and I was glad that he knew what ED was.

P/S : Man or man, I only knew Erection when I was 16 and Dyfunction when I was like 25