Last night after sending my lovely wife to the airport, on the way home, I was sharing my love story with my two boys on how I met their mother and how I'd always love this wonderful woman till the end of the time,(pause, whenever I say this to my friends, my friends would always tease me that I should not say it too early cos as they claim, people change)
After hearing my love story, Marvell said to me,"Papa, you are a very nice man" I said to him back,"Son, you can grow up to be a very nice man too" at this juncture, I was stretching out my hand to Jovial who was sitting next to me, he reciprocated by holding my hand,I then said," Jo, you too,you grow up to be a nice young man"
Now back to my friends' contention that I should not say it too early when it comes to loving somebody to the end of time,cos people change....is it true? If I intend to,aspire to,working toward it to,changing myself to be better to, can't I still say that I am determined to do just that.....
So, when me and my two boys went home, we managed to catch a show on Astro "Bio" where it depicted documentary about "labor pain" as the three of us were watching, I patted Jovial hand and said,"Jo, remember that delivery of a child is a real agony" but he surprised me with this," But papa, mother gave birth to me by 'operation" ma, that was quick and easy" I was like dumbfounded but I said this back to him," But carrying a baby in the stomach for 9 months could be real stress" and he nodded.
Husbands : Go and give your wife a hug
Son and daughter : Please tell your mother that she is the greatest and have a great weekend and God bless
P/S : We can still love till the end of time
Eugene, is this a mother's day dedication post? It sounds like it. In fact, we should buy gift and give it to our mother on our Birthday.
ReplyDeleteNice idea Yan............good reminder too
DeleteHAHA..you 3 guys talking about a woman at her back.:P
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's day to your lovely wife! :)
No lah, no talking back lah, just that we were all kind of missed her when on our back after dropping her at the airport,, sob sob sob
DeleteI saw that trailer of 'labor pain' program in Astro..
ReplyDeleteReminds me of my labor which is coming soon... =_=
You too enjoy your pregnancy ya York Mei,no worries,will remember you in my prayer, this I promise you and God Bless ya
DeleteA hug and sweet talk is not enough to compensate the 9 month pregnancy + nurturing her children until 21 years old (I'm greedy and I know it, hihihi).
ReplyDeleteYou taught your sons well. Your future daughter in laws are going to be thankful and grateful for their good and loving husbands ;)
I like this comment of yours,thinking about it,9 months of anxiety, of fear,of uncertainties,of worries,that's the longest 9 months in one woman's life,,,,,,,you agree?
DeleteEugene, this is the nicest post ever :D
ReplyDeleteThanks Agnes
DeleteDo you mind to share with us on "How I met your mother" (what you have told you boys)?
ReplyDeleteMust be very romantic and sweet :-)
Okay, I love to do it,hahahahhaah,if got romantic,let me know ya, if got no romantic, then I will try to be now that we are long married
DeleteU r a loving husband to your wife and a gentleman to all woman. I like the way you appreciate your wife. I believe, she will do the same to you too. And of course, your kids will learn the good way thru you and wife.
ReplyDeleteThanks,I am still learning to be a better husband,I know my flaws and change I must.............
DeleteEugene, I believe not many men are able to express heartfelt things. You are a rare breed.
ReplyDeleteI remember hearing a gynae friend saying that he'd rather the baby be delivered naturally than by c-section because the latter is a more complicating process having to have the tummy opened up in layers. The healing process takes longer too. Your boy probably need to be aware of the complexity of a c-section vis-a-vis a natural birth. My two cents. Happy w/e.
Thanks dear, this is a good info for me,I will let Jovial to read this comment of yours, thanks a lot
DeleteI learnt to say 'I love you' to everyone that I love and cared for. It's because...you never knew if there will be another chance to say it to them again.
ReplyDeleteThat's very nice of you, I must agree with you that " there might not be another chance
DeleteCool bro....my wifey also in Singapore now..coming back only tonight and would probably be away for another week to US a couple of week from now....lonely nights ....
ReplyDeleteNow I wish you were in Penang or vice versa,, so two lonely men can Erdinger away,hahahhahaah
DeleteIs it Mother's day already? Gosh.. i lost track of time! So now only the "guys" are in the house, right? :)
ReplyDeleteJust got back from your blog, nice to see you guys in red and happy
DeleteYou're a great DAD!!!
ReplyDeleteHave a lovely weekend :-)
Thanks Krist
DeleteRite now dun wan hug hug la... weather so damn hot. So uncomfy. Wait i turn on air cond, den can not only hug... can cuddle oso. LOL!
ReplyDeleteHow I wish my husband has quality time with his sons too..
ReplyDeleteAsk him to lah, may be he is too busy manning the shop
DeleteEugene... you win the heart of all the women/wives who are reading this post ;) ... I know you can be faithful and loving to your wife till you die coz you have the fear of Lord in your heart...
ReplyDeletestay blessed and happy
_Genskie_
Thank you, you know each day I am learning the way of the Lord,thus changing me bit by bit to be a better man
DeleteBro, I am happy for you..
ReplyDeleteFamily is the most important thing....
Problems started when husband not faithful, then cause arguments, kids get frustrated and then become problematic child...
I always miss my family when I travelled.....
have a great week ahead.....
You too have a great trip to China bro
DeleteYes, wife, mother are the greatest !
ReplyDeleteI agree,you agree and everyone should agree,right bro?
Deletehahaha I laughed at the last second paragraph. Smart Turn Bro! Smart Turn! (as in carrying a baby in the belly for 9months)
ReplyDeleteIt is true that Mother / Female is the most respect and loving in my perspective view.