Friday, May 04, 2012

Just the three of us.............

Last night after sending my lovely wife to the airport, on the way home, I was sharing my love story with my two boys on how I met their mother and how I'd always love this wonderful woman till the end of the time,(pause, whenever I say this to my friends, my friends would always tease me that I should not say it too early cos as they claim, people change)

After hearing my love story, Marvell said to me,"Papa, you are a very nice man" I said to him back,"Son, you can grow up to be a very nice man too" at this juncture, I was stretching out my hand to Jovial who was sitting next to me, he reciprocated by holding my hand,I then said," Jo, you too,you grow up to be a nice young man"

Now back to my friends' contention that I should not say it too early when it comes to loving somebody to the end of time,cos people change....is it true? If I intend to,aspire to,working toward it to,changing myself to be better to, can't I still say that I am determined to do just that.....

So, when me and my two boys went home, we managed to catch a show on Astro "Bio" where it depicted documentary about "labor pain" as the three of us were watching, I patted Jovial hand and said,"Jo, remember that delivery of a child is a real agony" but he surprised me with this," But papa, mother gave birth to me by 'operation" ma, that was quick and easy" I was like dumbfounded but I said this back to him," But carrying a baby in the stomach for 9 months could be real stress" and he nodded.

Husbands : Go and give your wife a hug
Son and daughter : Please tell your mother that she is the greatest and have a great weekend and God bless

P/S : We can still love till the end of time

34 comments:

  1. Eugene, is this a mother's day dedication post? It sounds like it. In fact, we should buy gift and give it to our mother on our Birthday.

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    1. Nice idea Yan............good reminder too

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  2. HAHA..you 3 guys talking about a woman at her back.:P
    Happy Mother's day to your lovely wife! :)

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    1. No lah, no talking back lah, just that we were all kind of missed her when on our back after dropping her at the airport,, sob sob sob

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  3. I saw that trailer of 'labor pain' program in Astro..
    Reminds me of my labor which is coming soon... =_=

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    1. You too enjoy your pregnancy ya York Mei,no worries,will remember you in my prayer, this I promise you and God Bless ya

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  4. A hug and sweet talk is not enough to compensate the 9 month pregnancy + nurturing her children until 21 years old (I'm greedy and I know it, hihihi).

    You taught your sons well. Your future daughter in laws are going to be thankful and grateful for their good and loving husbands ;)

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    1. I like this comment of yours,thinking about it,9 months of anxiety, of fear,of uncertainties,of worries,that's the longest 9 months in one woman's life,,,,,,,you agree?

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  5. Eugene, this is the nicest post ever :D

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  6. Do you mind to share with us on "How I met your mother" (what you have told you boys)?
    Must be very romantic and sweet :-)

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    1. Okay, I love to do it,hahahahhaah,if got romantic,let me know ya, if got no romantic, then I will try to be now that we are long married

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  7. U r a loving husband to your wife and a gentleman to all woman. I like the way you appreciate your wife. I believe, she will do the same to you too. And of course, your kids will learn the good way thru you and wife.

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    1. Thanks,I am still learning to be a better husband,I know my flaws and change I must.............

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  8. Eugene, I believe not many men are able to express heartfelt things. You are a rare breed.

    I remember hearing a gynae friend saying that he'd rather the baby be delivered naturally than by c-section because the latter is a more complicating process having to have the tummy opened up in layers. The healing process takes longer too. Your boy probably need to be aware of the complexity of a c-section vis-a-vis a natural birth. My two cents. Happy w/e.

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    1. Thanks dear, this is a good info for me,I will let Jovial to read this comment of yours, thanks a lot

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  9. I learnt to say 'I love you' to everyone that I love and cared for. It's because...you never knew if there will be another chance to say it to them again.

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    1. That's very nice of you, I must agree with you that " there might not be another chance

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  10. Cool bro....my wifey also in Singapore now..coming back only tonight and would probably be away for another week to US a couple of week from now....lonely nights ....

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    1. Now I wish you were in Penang or vice versa,, so two lonely men can Erdinger away,hahahhahaah

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  11. Is it Mother's day already? Gosh.. i lost track of time! So now only the "guys" are in the house, right? :)

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    1. Just got back from your blog, nice to see you guys in red and happy

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  12. You're a great DAD!!!

    Have a lovely weekend :-)

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  13. Rite now dun wan hug hug la... weather so damn hot. So uncomfy. Wait i turn on air cond, den can not only hug... can cuddle oso. LOL!

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  14. How I wish my husband has quality time with his sons too..

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    1. Ask him to lah, may be he is too busy manning the shop

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  15. Eugene... you win the heart of all the women/wives who are reading this post ;) ... I know you can be faithful and loving to your wife till you die coz you have the fear of Lord in your heart...
    stay blessed and happy

    _Genskie_

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    1. Thank you, you know each day I am learning the way of the Lord,thus changing me bit by bit to be a better man

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  16. Bro, I am happy for you..
    Family is the most important thing....
    Problems started when husband not faithful, then cause arguments, kids get frustrated and then become problematic child...
    I always miss my family when I travelled.....
    have a great week ahead.....

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    1. You too have a great trip to China bro

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  17. Yes, wife, mother are the greatest !

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    1. I agree,you agree and everyone should agree,right bro?

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  18. hahaha I laughed at the last second paragraph. Smart Turn Bro! Smart Turn! (as in carrying a baby in the belly for 9months)

    It is true that Mother / Female is the most respect and loving in my perspective view.

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