I am sorry son,at times,when you feel kind of "pai sei" with me,when I act a little crazily, when I turn my 'sour face' at you,when i say a lot of NOs to you and you don't even know why,when you may ask"can my papa be a little nicer to me ?" when I am not and I am sorry when times I fail to keep up to my words.
But then again,I thank you my son,for giving me so much joy for being your dad,thank you for you've never uttered the words,"I hate you" thank you for you still wanting to reach out to hold my hands when you sleep and thank you for asking me to accompany you for a little while till you are far away from sleeping.......just thank you son. The joy of being your Papa,is to know that you can be good and you can be bad,you can be naughty and cheeky and you can be nice and lovely and when all that is said and done,I hope you can be proud of me as much as I am proud of you.
"Happy 14th birthday,Jovial" I love you and may the Good Lord continue to guide you with godly wisdom........................