Friday, July 29, 2011

90/140......Chill babe

My lovely wife sent me this SMS," went to see doc just now,blood pressure 90/140 ,quite high,,worry....................."

When i received that SMS, i was kind of disturbed, how can it be for my lovely wife leads a kind of a healthy lifesytle,then as i zero in,there could only be two areas of her life that would stress her,that's her job and the family...........

I was still thinking then,how as a husband i could help her to destress further, I mean besides doing the house chores and assist with the children's stuff, what else can I do ? I was really digging deep and suddenly i realized this.......

Yes, sometimes my male ego stuff and the part of being chavonistic could really get to her, i reckon,you see my lovely wife has a mild demeanour and i guess sometimes she has to bite the nonsense of mine,probably that generates the unseen pressure and stress to her too...

So now as being a husband, I am determined to be a better one now. She enjoys her work, so there is not much problem but the children stuff and my stuff, i will not give her the headaches, thus let us chill


P/S : I want to be a husband of love, of concern, of more love and of more concern

20 comments:

  1. Eugene, Its very sweet of you to think and jot this down. I wonder how many spouses actually do this. Hope everything will be fine with your wife and the high pressure is a once off thing.

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  2. Quite normal for people over 40...but do be careful. Watch your diet and exercise...and learn to relax! Try some herbal medication e.g. daun hempedu bumi...or even green tea. Don't start on those western ones as you will have to take for life.

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  3. Soo...chill out today! It is Friday.. and I really dread thinking of the work that is on my table now, it is 7.49am...
    but on the other hand, thank God that I have a job!
    Take care of your "queen!" God Bless!

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  4. So humble of you Eugene. Check her diet too, take plenty fruits, vege, oats.

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  5. High blood pressure may also due to family history and genetic.

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  6. That's very sweet of you. Dun worry so much k. She'll be alright soon.

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  7. let us chill out together bro. Focus on how to bring happiness to the family, but don't make it a chore. Just chill.. hehe

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  8. ask your lovely wife to take good rest.. sometime the blood pressure will go high, no need to panic. that's what happens to my dad too sometimes.. tomorrow still going jogging? happy weekend Eugene.

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  9. wah this world will in peace if every father/guys know their role as the family head and husband too

    hope both of u okey today!!

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  10. Watch the diet closely and exercise regularly. Like Sheoh Yan said, sometimes it's in the gene.

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  11. You already do the best you can Eugene. Maybe can have some outdoor program during weekend eg. walk at the park, light exercise, yoga & etc for your lovely wife.

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  12. You cook or not? If yes, try cooking bittergourd for your wife to eat. Good to lower blood pressure.

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  13. Good of you to think further into this. :) It's Friday, chill indeed.

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  14. Exercise is a good way to reduce any stress in our life. Really does quite effectively :).

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  15. try this for good blood circulation.
    circle http://www.eexcel.com.my/pr_sv_conc_circle.htm

    and also stresgon
    http://www.eexcel.com.my/pr_sv_conc_stres.htm to nourish reverse system

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  16. Gambateh Eugene!

    Wishing you and lovely wife a great weekend!

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  17. yes yes... go holiday and dstress together. But don't binge on unhealthy food while vacationing. ^^

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  18. sometimes work could be stressful too..even though she loves her work.

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