Monday, February 28, 2011

Honesty............

Last Friday after receiving the good news of my lovely wife's, we thought of going out to celebrate with the family after work, but instead my friends read my blog about the good news and true to my promise, i said ok to buy them some drinks.

I therefore had to put up some excuses to my two boys that i had to go out with friends for some meeting with my friends (children not allowed kind of stuff), eventually my boys found out the lie, and Marvell called me up and said this while i was on the way to meeting up my friends," papa, i am very disappointed with you"

I felt really bad, immediately i made a turn back home and i said i was sorry for lying to them and explained to them my situation of so called keeping my promise, and then suddenly Marvell said this," Papa, you better go now, your friends are waiting and i love you and drive carefully"

Sometimes i really feel like a lousy father, i was not like" family first no matter what" and i am still learning and thank God for my sons' understanding, love and concern........

P/S : Staying true
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19 comments:

  1. VickylowFebruary 28, 2011 at 10:59 AM

    Dun feel guilty as you already apologies and little Marvel is so sweet and considering.

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  2. UnknownFebruary 28, 2011 at 11:13 AM

    sometimes we can actually forgot what we promised...Luckily ur boy is so understanding.

    u have a nice day!

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  3. YannieFebruary 28, 2011 at 11:16 AM

    Your son is very understanding. If for my girls, they will force to keep my promise no matter what.

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  4. AnonymousFebruary 28, 2011 at 11:40 AM

    u should not lie to them on the first place..

    when they found it, lagi worst...
    hurt them so bad..

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  5. suituapuiFebruary 28, 2011 at 1:13 PM

    They will know...when you lie, no matter how good you are. You've been living together for so many years...they can read your mind, know what you want to say even before you say it. Be honest with them...if you must. They will understand.

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  6. Inspired Momx1February 28, 2011 at 1:27 PM

    Your boy is very understanding and thoughtful and in this case, I think there's no need to lie to him as I believe even if you tell him honestly, he can understand and accept it.

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  7. Small KucingFebruary 28, 2011 at 1:39 PM

    what can i say...this is the 2nd time..not so long ago was Jovial.

    Hope there is no 3rd time.

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  8. UnknownFebruary 28, 2011 at 1:47 PM

    little boy sounded big...*sweet though～

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  9. sexyjessieFebruary 28, 2011 at 2:26 PM

    You should have not lied to them, I sure they are mature enough to handle the truth. :)

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  10. mNhLFebruary 28, 2011 at 5:26 PM

    Marvel is so understanding at such age. Celebrations with family can be ever night.

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  11. gunsiritFebruary 28, 2011 at 7:42 PM

    I think you are the most responsible daddy I ever known bro..

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  12. AnonymousFebruary 28, 2011 at 8:54 PM

    cakap tak serupa bikin - dumbno

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  13. ReanaclaireFebruary 28, 2011 at 9:34 PM

    Honesty... reminds me of that song.. by Billy Joel?
    So now your sons can read you like a book too.. like chinese saying.. how the tails moves, they know what we are up to... hahaha...

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  14. TekkausFebruary 28, 2011 at 10:26 PM

    They should know now that sometimes...somethings are not within our control. :D

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  15. wennFebruary 28, 2011 at 11:25 PM

    it's always good to be honest to our family.

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  16. Isaac TanFebruary 28, 2011 at 11:29 PM

    your boy is matured beyond his years. You must be so proud of him!

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  17. Alice LawMarch 1, 2011 at 2:01 AM

    Gosh... luckily he understands! LOL, now your friends who read this will definitely feel guilty for asking you out!^-^

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  18. UnknownMarch 1, 2011 at 7:17 AM

    thanks guys for the comment

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  19. UnknownMarch 1, 2011 at 7:17 AM

    hi anonymous,,,,,,,i agree with you

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