Thursday, June 17, 2010

Why invitations declined...........

Normal coffee breaks with buddies, this is time that we talk nonsense, mainly man's talk, no surprise sometimes men can be more gossipy, i have to admit that include myself.

One of the topics that came about was none other than world cup this time around, then one small alec friend suddenly suggested that we should go to the pub, binging and enjoying the world cup and there came another friend suggesting one particular pub presumably he has been. He strong recommendation about this said pub was because he told us that there would be girls coming without boyfriends hanging there watching world cup as well.

He reckon that it would be a bonus for us enjoying world cup as well as so called "ogling" .We took the vote to know who were keen to go, 6 of us, 4 is for, me and another declined. They pestered me to go lah go lah, i told them i would love too, i also told me that i tried not to because pub and women has always been my "soft spot" i said to them.

I've always told my friends if Samson could fall, imagine how easy would be for Eugene not to. That's why my friends love to use this moniker “鸡母,kek boh" a coward on me everytime they ask me to go to the pubs, if condition is set "no wife allowed"

Pardon me, most of the men are not like me i know, but till to date i do know my weakness and it doesn't mean men who habitually patronizing pub will falter but sadly i have known of friends who fell. I know that God has given me the liberty to choose, and i am afraid if one day exposed to such scene for far too many times, i might forget God too, that's why i rather expose my weakness to my friends and be labelled as 鸡母then.........................................

I believe sometimes we will make excuses to God for our capriciousness and get HIM to understand that yes we are all human but then again.............God says I have given you the liberty to choose, therefore no excuse.

Note : My heart still pounds madly if i see.................


P/S :我相信显丑不如藏拙

15 comments:

  1. it is very rare to have a husband-kind like you but i believe there are one out there too, which is my husband :)

    for me, wife doesn't need anything else in this world but loyalty and honesty.

    congratulations for giving that to ur wife and family :)

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  2. I am giving my wife that too. :D

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  3. Hey husbands out there..listen to Eugene..this is kind of husband you should follow..lol. Feel glad to your wife for such a wonderful husband she have.

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  4. In fact I don't really mind my man having a drink in the pub, be it for football or gossip. As long as he doesn't abuse my trust in him. If I find him betray me, once then tomorrow never come (not die). wakakaka!

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  5. I don't understand why men thinks that women don't know how to enjoy soccer... my group of friends will always bring their wives along when we go watched soccer or anything related to sports... :D

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  6. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak? But personally, I feel that men who do that are that kind - others go to pubs for a drink and chat with friends, listen to music... - they will not be sidelined into "other activities"...

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  7. gee eugene! being in a pub can make the devil in u grow redder eh? :P

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  8. Self-control is a wonderful thing to do. Temptations could prove fatal if left to go wild. Kudos bro!
    +Ant+

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  9. I'm ok if my hb clubbing hang his fren once a while. He do report and tell me who he go out with. That is good you know your weakness haha

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  10. Eugene, you make such a great husband la. My husband has the same qualities too. He'll never go to a pub without me and even if I give him permission, he still doesn't go, hehe.

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  11. keep it up,Eugene - you're a good husband and your wife very lucky too. i'm not that really a good husband - younno i know lah.., that's me anyway .

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  12. normally, i will go to pub for a drink. so far havent go to pub during world cup session hehehe:P

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