Someone shared this with me not too long ago, and when she was sharing, she was frustrated , so the story goes................
****When i first started to come out and work, big chunk of my salary was given to my mother, and when i got married i was the only one in the family giving her the most monthly allowance, i did that consistenly for so many years untill i got divorced last year.
By then i could not give her as much as i wanted to and sometimes i even defaulted on my giving due to my tight financial constraint, i had to take care of my two children for my ex is not supporting me in anyway. Then suddenly my mother turned cold towards me. I really dont know why?
Why could not she understand that i am struggling to make ends meet, and starting to stand up on my own, i need sometimes to make in on my own, during this time, i need her support and blessing but sadly it is not forthcoming. I really dont understand, my other siblings are giving her some allowance too, and as i gather those amount given to her is more than sufficient for her monthly, why is she still being hostile towards me.
I just wonder is money the root of the problem that strains the relationship between a mom and her daughter*********
P/S : Sometimes i wonder too, how much is enough?