Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Do women really understand men?

I always remember this meeting over a cuppa of tea or coffee with two of my friends on one weekend, my two friends (one a married woman, another my very good friend who is a gay.)not long ago.

When we get together,it will just be a blast of laughter and names calling but we are numb about it simply because we are good friends, but i remember one thing said by my gay friend to my married lady friend and my gay friend said this to her, albeit jokingly, " Dont ever let me come on to your hubby, i guarantee you this once he had it with me, he will be addicted as far as sex is concerned." and mischeaviously he continued," i will be better in bed than you do."

I was curious about the remarks made by my gay friend, then i asked him," Eric, how can you be so sure about that," guess what, his answer really stunned me and he said," It takes another man to know the needs of another man," and he did not stop there i remember," Only man knows what makes another man turned on, and only man knows the best part of arousal of another man" scarcastically he was laughing away.

I am sharing the story with you, because i read with interest what my good friend wrote in her blog cleffairy about the subject "do women really understand the men?"

Now thinking back of what my gay friend Eric said,it really gives me a lot thoughts about the issues of Sex and the satisfaction that comes with it, the openess between a husband and a wife,the boyfriend and the girl friend when they are having sex, things like do you tell our partner, how to turn us on and what turns her on, what can make me groan and moan and what can make her holler in ecstasy. Sharing our comfort zones and discomfort areas whilst having sex and do we talk about what to do pre and post sex.

Do we married couples, still trying to explore about sex or do we just let it be as if it is my duty to satisfy her and hers to do likewise to me?

I attest that good sex in a way can really constitute to a good married life, off course if it done with love.

Q) Tell me what do you think?

P/S : If i can mate with you in total nakedness, is there anything left in the closet?

19 comments:

  1. Father, I'm under-aged to be commenting on this topic :D

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  2. They don't...they can't!

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  3. Im blushing..lol..but bet me, if women really understand man or man really understand woman then life will nake so simple. We no need all the supplement, med's or book to guide us..people who say they know EVERYTHING is actually they know ANYTHING not everything... hehhee

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  4. @Cikgu... wud they don't... they can't? wud lah... women cannot understand men and vice versa ah? You so funny ah, Cikgu!

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  5. " Only man knows what makes another man turned on, and only man knows the best part of arousal of another man"
    I do not agree.It is NOT that difficult to understand each other, it is if you can tolerate each other that is challenging.
    If we are open and comfortable with our partners , we will tell them how we feel.

    As for gays, I have a lot of gay friends. I do not think anyone of them will challenge me the way Eric did. After all, WOMEN ARE BUILT TO COMPLIMENT MEN.

    However, in a gay relationships, they tend to be very passionate as their relationships are mainly based on sexual attractions before it become a loving relationships.
    Hence, the NEED to please each other.

    To me, THAT SHOULD BE THE WAY IN all relationships , no matter , GAY OR NOT?

    Hey, I am GAY TOO. I LOVE MEN! Only ONE MAN for me though, my DARLING!

    Have you a horny week, Eugene.

    hugs,
    shakira

    p.s. WHEN YOU TASTE FORBIDDEN FRUITS, IT TEND TO HIGHLIGHTENED ALL YOUR SENSES.LOL SO, sure, if you are "touched" by a gay/lesbian, YOU MAY BE HOOKED! lol
    AS for me, I just prefer MEN, I do not find women arousing to me but a lot of women too.

    p.s SAME THING GOES...
    IF A SEXY WOMAN WERE TO MAKE LOVE WITH YOUR WIFE, THEN ....YOU WILL BE REDUNDANT!

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  6. ahem...dont know how to comment. Errrr...to understand a man or a woman is a journey.

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  7. So as long as the partner doesn't juz lay like a log, sex sld be okay lar LOLZ!
    +Ant+

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  8. Nope! Women cannot. Unless of course....they are mind-reader. :p

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  9. tunggang kuda is kinda like a house's chores for me (after so many years of marriage).if i'm given the chance to strut the stuff with other women,then its a different story - an-excitement-kind-of-a-lifetime-thing.otherwise,no need to understand woman about sex - just get over with it and go to zzzzzz(younno what i mean in the near future or may be you knew already...hehehe)

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  10. quote " Dont ever let me come on to your hubby, i guarantee you this once he had it with me"

    my questios is, did u ever think about it? coz I asked lots of my straight guys friends b4, they replied was they hate gay so much, coz for them is very geli. not sure is pretend or not la.. haha..)

    for those who changed "half way", did they ever thought of making out with the same sex is disgusting before? (b4 they change la)

    curious curious.. and NO OFENSE K..

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  11. not too sure about gay. guess gay simply loves naked men.

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  12. Finally..you are out of the closet.

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  13. Haha, your gay friend is really funny and dare to talk like that to the married friend. I guess women and men will not fully understand each other. If not, the writer of Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus will not be a hot selling book for so long. :)

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  14. The reason why some women keep a gigolo somewhere and can't be bothered with understanding men or make the act in bed exciting is because men like Ah Ngao exists.

    If my husband is like Ah Ngao...I'd call some toy boys to please me immediately, before his very eyes. Ohhh, won't humping be exciting then.

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  15. @ncell... what does that supposed to mean?

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  16. like Merryn, in a way, i m over the age.. so no comment.. but couldnt help thinking .. can a gay man satisfy a lady as he satisfy a man? *geli skit*

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  17. at last,at last...somebody responds to my ideology.thanks Cleffairy for the "knock" on my kelapa head,thank you ..thank you

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