I always remember this meeting over a cuppa of tea or coffee with two of my friends on one weekend, my two friends (one a married woman, another my very good friend who is a gay.)not long ago.
When we get together,it will just be a blast of laughter and names calling but we are numb about it simply because we are good friends, but i remember one thing said by my gay friend to my married lady friend and my gay friend said this to her, albeit jokingly, " Dont ever let me come on to your hubby, i guarantee you this once he had it with me, he will be addicted as far as sex is concerned." and mischeaviously he continued," i will be better in bed than you do."
I was curious about the remarks made by my gay friend, then i asked him," Eric, how can you be so sure about that," guess what, his answer really stunned me and he said," It takes another man to know the needs of another man," and he did not stop there i remember," Only man knows what makes another man turned on, and only man knows the best part of arousal of another man" scarcastically he was laughing away.
I am sharing the story with you, because i read with interest what my good friend wrote in her blog cleffairy about the subject "do women really understand the men?"
Now thinking back of what my gay friend Eric said,it really gives me a lot thoughts about the issues of Sex and the satisfaction that comes with it, the openess between a husband and a wife,the boyfriend and the girl friend when they are having sex, things like do you tell our partner, how to turn us on and what turns her on, what can make me groan and moan and what can make her holler in ecstasy. Sharing our comfort zones and discomfort areas whilst having sex and do we talk about what to do pre and post sex.
Do we married couples, still trying to explore about sex or do we just let it be as if it is my duty to satisfy her and hers to do likewise to me?
I attest that good sex in a way can really constitute to a good married life, off course if it done with love.
Q) Tell me what do you think?
P/S : If i can mate with you in total nakedness, is there anything left in the closet?