I must really pen this down and store it here so as to let him reminisce when he is older and to remind him when he needed some push in life.
So last night, after dinner,my two boys had some sibling squabble and suddenly Marvell was crying and when I saw that,I asked him why was he crying ( actually I knew already lah), he just said let him cry a little while and was not willing to talk to me.
After some brief moments, he came to me and told me he was alright and surprisingly he said this to me,"Papa, no worries" and continued telling me this," A strong man would cry too but he will cry a little while then stop and that makes him stronger but a weak man will continue to cry and cry and that makes him weaker"
I gave him a hug and said to him this, " well said son but remember I am always here for you if you need a shoulder to cry on"
P/S : He said the smartest thing indeed