I am sure many of you have seen,just as I have the farce created by a "Kak listen ' or I prefer it better as "Listen 姐“ berating a miss Bawani .
The only thing that I despise greatly about this "kak listen " is her arrogance, she acted as if she is more superior than those under grads, I am all for "freedom of speech" therefore "kak listen" has the right to voice her opinions too but by exerting the arrogance to defend "freedom of speech ' is most unbecoming for one.
As parents,we too most often than not fall into this "syndrome of Listen 姐" ..we tell our children" you better shut up,I am your father or your mother,you better listen when I speak" I am guilty of that too.
Now, I don't say this anymore particularly with Jovial for I know I need to give some space for him to express himself,I know too that there are areas that he can enlighten me. I guess communication is about for one respect and when that is lost,one party will feel that there is no need for communication at all.
Looking back,when I lost those "communications" with my children were those times when I exerted my authority,when I hollered " shut up and listen" and when I did not respect their dissenting opinions .
So seriously when I watched that video, I learned, I learned not to be like "Listen 姐" I learned not to tell my customers,"my products where got problems..other customer no say got problem" hahhaahhaha.
Have you ever heard the boss telling the staff," I am the boss,so you better do what I ask you"
Have a great weekend guys
P/S : I am still learning