Marvell knocks on the door, I say to him,"You can't come in" . He asks from the outside,"Papa, what are you doing with mommy in there?" I say,"Will tell you where I am done".
Done. I then say to him,"Marvell, papa was having sex with mommy just now" he used to giggle about it when I say this to him but now he is okay with it cos I've explained to him what sex was all about it, the way at his level of understanding,surely I would refrain from the deeper side or more complicated sides of it. My boys know what penis and vagina is,they know what should happen during "sexual intercourse."
So, now I read that certain ministry has instructed to "take off the books from the shelves" "Where did I come from" because certain quarters claim that too much obscenity is in the book. I googled the book, to me it was okay if the children were to be guided by the parents while reading the book. Now my question is , do we still want to teach our children about the "Bee and the Honey " side of Sex Education or the plain truth of it, for me, I would choose the latter, what do you think?
What is the fuss of showing pictures our genitals,when children are guided "educationally" about it,what is wrong of showing some pictures depicting "having sex" pictures,again if it is done with proper knowledge of it?
Sometimes as family,we talk about sex,laugh at it and explain about it, I seriously believe it is okay to do it but we must also talk about "RESPECT" too as far as sometimes sex education is concerned.
P/S : Guidance is more important than Ignorance