Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Stand up ladies...stand up

I read a piece of sad news from a Chinese print over the weekend, it was about a 29 year old divorced lady, who from one school gathering got reunited with her old classmates that included this Monster man.

They eventually fell in love and intimacy ensued and the boyfriend coaxed her into taking nude pictures of herself and it was reported over 80 over nudes pictures over captured by her then boyfriend.

They somehow broke up and that's the beginning of her tormenting nightmarish episode of her life that was close to 2 years,she was made a "sex slave".That monster would periodically called up for sex and if she refused,he would threaten to upload her nude picture over the internet and she was docile every time by his threats....She was eventually encouraged by her present boyfriend to come forward to lodge police report.

You know the above story really reminds me of how many women out there are still under the threats from their abusive,barbaric and insane boyfriends, partners or husbands. They yield to their threats,submit to their abuses and they suffer in their own world.

They are so afraid to come forward,they are afraid to be humiliated sometimes by their own family,it is so sad, isn't it............

Please if you ever hear such news,your lady friends,your neighbors,your sisters,just help them to come forward and report the cases to the authority.
P/S : No man can enslave you,if you never let him do that to you not even once

19 comments:

  1. Sometimes we mistakenly think that we follow the bidding of our partners for love although it'll probably cause hurt in the future. :(

    Ladies must be strong! Please think before we act.

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  2. i read about it..and its sad how man can do anything to overpower a woman. thankfully, my current bf always tells me 'if i do this and that to a woman, my mom will definitely kill me.' I so love his mom! =)

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  3. I read this news yesterday. This lady had to be responsible to her own wrong judgement and bad affection. No one can enslave you, if you never allow.

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  4. It is sad that victim being shoot those photo and kena slave or something.

    It is sad that the person who missuse the camera . . .

    sad

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  5. Read about this through Chinapress..
    No doubt we feel pity for this lady, she has to responsible for what she did too.

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  6. D morale of d story is do not let other ppl to take ur nude pics.....

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  7. During our time, no Internet, no such blackmail.. nor scandal.. sometimes i wonder why these girls allow their bfs/husbands to snap the pictures...

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  8. not only stand up, we go to wake up too..have been hearing so many of such cases..:(

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  9. better to be safe..no nude photos please

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  10. It's so sad to hear the story which involves abuse of women. These women are fool enough to let the men to take their nude pics.

    I known of a girlfriend, who met a guy the first time and let him take her nude picture. She has known the guy intention and she should have declined the offer.

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  11. It's so sad to hear the story which involves abuse of women. These women are fool enough to let the men to take their nude pics.

    I known of a girlfriend, who met a guy the first time and let him take her nude picture. She has known the guy intention and she should have declined the offer.

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  12. I don't believe in taking nude pics of our spouse or gf. What's the point of doing so? It's just merely lust over the pixs! Might as well search the net for porn pixs. Thus, ladies shouldn't let their guys have their way. Say no!

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  13. Well, I believe one interprets or judges whether anything is right or wrong based on one's self intersets at that knife-edge moment.

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  14. First of all, no nude pics. Thus the lady wouldn't end up mentally and sexually abused. This is the price she has to pay when she allowed the naked shooting earlier.

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  15. Ya talking about this case among my girl friend. How crazy in love also we got to set a boundary。 Although love is blind but please be rational.

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  16. Every day there are stories of such monsters in the news. It's frightening as well. I really pray for that day to come soon when women are treated with equality and respect in every country!

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