I picked my Jovial up from school yesterday,in the car,heading for lunch,he then suddenly asked me this," Papa, so how is Anwar case?" then again abruptly,he asked again,"Papa,what is sodomy ?"
Thinking to myself,could he have known the meaning of "sodomy" already but just to put me to test,or he really did not have any clue about it. Whenever I am faced with difficult questions from my two boys,almost all the times,I don't and I won't evade the questions or simply blush them off but this time,I was really lost,not that I didn't know but just that I did not how to put forth to him.
I was thinking should I use the words,such as,"copulation","sexual intercourse","having sex" or simply"fuck" just to begin with. I then chose..................
I said this,"Jo,you see son, "sodomy" is not normal sexual intercourse",it is again the law" he then asked,"Why against the law?" I was pushed to the corner by my 15 years old boy but then again, wanting to get it done and over it quickly,I said this.............
"Jo,sodomy is someone fucks someone's backside" without asking if he knew what I intended to tell him, I said,"So,you want to have chicken rice or fried rice for lunch,son?"
Note : How would you tell you boys about it?
P/S : Son, we will talk about it again,I promise you this,ya