I did not really catch him red handed,it was just that I saw this form 2 boy (14 years old) smoking next to me while I was waiting to pick Jovial up just now. I asked him a few questions.
I asked him why did he smoke, he said many of his friends smoked
I asked him why was he not interested in study,he said just said no interest in it
I asked him did his parent ever concern about his study, he said they told him that he was stupid, up for no good and would never excel academically.
I asked him what did he want to do when he grew up, he said no idea, may be he said selling pirated VCDs
Note : Our sons need encouragement, our sons need to know their dreams,our sons need to be told that they can be up for something for good.
P/S : Encourage them