The above is the copy and paste "wall message" on her Facebook i borrowed from a dear friend of mine from Australia........and i know it will sound very unfair to any "working moms " out there and i know that life is indeed hard for you ladies, juggling works, house works,"husband works" and "children works", if someone were to shout"hey lady, set your priorities, right"
But seriously, can we all set our priorities right? I for one, cannot but i will do my best to do what i believe is dearest to me..............my family. Some times when i show my "face' to my wife when she is so oblivious to my presence when she "has" to reply the incessant barrage of emails, do i feel that i am being "sidelined" sometimes i do, but does she neglect me, i don't think so or may be at that time her priority is her emails and not me.
Marriage is a funny thing,,, a lot of my friends some of whom have been married for so many years, sometimes they will not feel the way i feel, simply because they will joke about it,"老夫老妻“ old couple already, no need to " kan cheong" concern so much already lah, let her do what she wants and we do what you want, you happy and she's happy.
I for one love to have this 僮景 a vision that if God's willing, husband and wife should still be loving, should still be holding hands, should still be able to make jokes with each other until the time runs out on them but sadly and truly, many of us tend to lose out the joy of the little things like holding hands, have a beer or two with, talking nonsense and i am sure that requires just a little attention and eats away not much of your time...............
P/S : 最浪漫的事,是慢慢一起陪你到老