I loathe it to the bone, whenever this statement is made directly or indirectly pointing at me as being a Christian."How come you Christians behave like that one, what for going to Church still acting in uncivilized ways"
My mom was so mad at a particular incident that involved her 20 + old grandson and another member of the family, there was some scuffle in term of some body contact and it was over some business issues, so she called me and over the phone she had already started swearing away with profanity,( i knew the situation was bad enough for a 70+ old woman swearing and cursing away), and that particular member that got the bombardment from her happens to be sharing the same faith like i do.
So over the phone i could litterally hearing her calling names, cursing away and it was just bad and she was hoping that i could warn that family member (who happens to be Christian) to not touch her grandson again and she was eager for me to do that for her.
I said to her that i could not do that for her as I did not even know what excatly happened and it would be very unfair to proclaim someone gulity without being found guilty, that's just not me /
Sensing my unwillingness to stand on her side, then she began to insinuate that I was protecting that particular member who happened to be a Christian like i was so she started her salvos in making general statement such like,"you same geng one lah, lousy Christian, my friends Christians are so good unlike that bastard blah blah blah blah"
On a hindsight, the whole problem was just some business disputes involving two right thinking or wrong thinking adults,that's all but the real problem was someone jumping the gun without checking or finding out the truth,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Just digress a bit,the other day a friend was commenting this about me," You what kind of Christian, can wear earing one kah ?"
P/S : Yes I am a Christian and I am a humanly Christian currently under construction to be a better one..............and I am willing to be reconstructed