She said this to me," Hey Eugene, I trust your fashion sense and i want your opinion on this" I paused as i looked at her one thing for sure, she spotted a new hairstyle but i was not too sure if that was (her new hairstyle) what she wanted to ask me about?
Pompously she raised her right hand and gently stroking her hair and began to ask," What do you think of my new hairstyle?" I said frankly I liked it but then again added i preferred the previous one then the current, at this juncture,she was like questioning like, why i said nice but then again i still preferred the old one.....................
Briefly, i said to her, the hairstyle itself was nice but the 整体感 (wholesomeness or the overall look) less desirable than the previous.. guess what she said after my remarks? " Ya lah, a lot of people say nice, you say not nice, you don't know what taste lah" guess what happened in days to come?
From then on, every time i see her, she acts kind of i am of "non existent" even in the company of others............................
Now i believe sometimes hypocrisy is better than sincerity but then again i still prefer the latter.
P/S : Sometimes if you don't have it,you just don't have it..Susan Boyle just can't be Lady Gaga
You don't know women kah? When they ask you, must praise one... Never mind what you really think. LOL!!!
ReplyDeleteya la people are like that one. ask for opinion and when people give honest opinion which is not to their liking, they don't like. so next time you must say you want me to tell the truth or a lie?
ReplyDeleteLadies ma... cannot take negative comments one.. esp on how they look! hahahaha...
ReplyDeleteoops..>.< sometimes you need to more careful when giving your comments to the ladies... esp those not-so-positive ones.... :D
ReplyDeletetruth hurts. not many ppl can handle it.
ReplyDeleteThey want to hear what they like to hear so what opinion..? lolz. Old saying "ladies heart is like a tiny needle in the deep sea..". If you can find the needle then you've found the key to unlock their heart..hahaha
ReplyDeleteMay be she was expecting to hear only positive comments, LOL. But nevermind, at least you dint sound very rude.
ReplyDeleteMay be she has spent a lot of $$$ on her new hair. So, your comment make her heart broken. Your p/s this time, a bit mean, kekekeke!
ReplyDeleteEugene, you don't understand women well la.. hahahaha... not your fault or not her fault. It's just because women are women... :P You can just pull your brake after the compliments. Stop! right there! The rest keep it to yourself. Swallow it down. :) Then you can see a big big smile on her face and she'll think you're her best friend ever! :)
ReplyDeletethats why they say men are from mars, women venus.. We can joke around, but when a women asks your opinion on their looks.
ReplyDelete"wah cantik!, woot you look awesome, love that hair, etc etc" Lol!!
Just like the pig with lipstick analogy. A pig is still a pig, no matter how nice the lipstick is.
ReplyDeleteerrr....honesty doesnt pays? :p
ReplyDeleteLOL, Eugene, you've hurt that lady.
ReplyDeleteI agree with most ladies here, when we have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. Women are like that, just don't be too direct.
haha maybe the lady embarassed oredy with u. wait till she change her fashion again and asked u one more time "do this looks better than the last one?"
ReplyDeletewahaha Eugene that is very common for a woman / girl. When you answer "no nice" then she will said you dun have fashion sense LOL
ReplyDelete" I fat ka?" she asks,
ReplyDelete"No you where got fat,if you fat,JLo is gigantic already lol" I answer
"My dress nice ka? : she asks
"Wa, very very nice,i am sure you can't find this in Pasar Malam" I answer.
"You think this LV i am carrying fake one or not?" she asks
"Everything you were so ori one lah, where got fake,except your boobs" i answer...
frust betul
Next time, just be indirect to be direct. :)
ReplyDeleteIt is hard to please a woman, so just answer what she wants to hear. Say no more, dear! :)
ReplyDeleteEugene, havent u learned anything about women? LOL. when they ask ur opinion ESPECIALLY about how they look, always tell them they look nice. if she asked you if it made her look fat, say no! hahaha. seriously, this will save both of you the trouble.
ReplyDeleteJust said Cantik lor.... even if it's look like a babi..hahaha
ReplyDeleteFunny how some ppl can 'act' like that. If you think you're so beautiful, try to join Miss Msia lo..haha
ReplyDeleteHehe... STP got his point, he pretty much knws abt women! As for me certain comments might be pain on my butt, but nvtheless it's priceless and certainly worth for money thn those hypocrite one!
ReplyDeleteThank guys,points taken
ReplyDeletehaaa..never encounter this eugene.. ermm no comment
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