I like this girl already when i read about her story from the Star this morning,here we are reading a story about how an engineer saved her marriage from tips she learned from watching porn movies.
Probably she knew that it was a mutual responsibility for married couples to work on their marriages when their sex lives were mundane,faltering or lack of spice so to speak, perhaps to her she recognized that the onus to satisfy her needs lies solely not on her partner alone but she must be the initiator of it when the partner fails to play that part.
You might mock this girl by saying something like this, " No sex can die ka? " or " she is a damn bitch" but if i were to tell you a fact of life that " deprivation of sexual fulfillment" in a marriage could sometimes bring about marriage meltdown, would you agree with me? Picture this then.............
A dear church friend of mine nearly had her marriage ended when her husband refused to seek medical attention to have his pre-ejaculation problem corrected, you see how selfish we can be,right? It is like i don't care you climax or not, as long as i am done, i wrap myself up and doze off to dreamland.
A lot of us marriage couples, refuse to talk about sex, we don't like to highlight our sexual needs to our spouses or maybe we thought it was kind of taboo to do so, therefore we just continue to live on as husband and wife,even when someone has to suffer from "not truly enjoying sex as married couple should"
Remember this remark made by one stupid MP (Member of Parliament) which to me is ludicrous, stating that the wife must stop everything she does,even when she is cooking when at that particular time the husband wants sex, she must give it to him. Sex is not about enslaving your spouse to fulfill your selfishness.
Seriously, let us learn about the ways to a fulfilling sex and when two bodies intertwine, let us not deprive the other what you don't want to be deprived of and i am still learning.
If your sexual ability is hampered medically, please seek medical help and please do not seek outside pleasures...........God forbids that.
P/S : When two bodies intertwine, truth must be spoken