Friday, March 25, 2011

My heart bleeds............

You know one of the hardest things in life is Waiting because it can be so tormenting, you keep your fingers crossed and just waiting for the good news.

I accompanied my lovely wife for a minor surgery to remove a mole of which it suddenly bled, with blood streaming incessantly. The doctor told us that he had to send the cut mole for biopsy to determine if it could be cancerous or not.

I was there, i knew that my lovely wife was scared when the doctor told her this, words like "oncologist" "cancerous" and what not could really send shivers to anyone hearing, worse still to the one intended too.

The doctor was frank with his deliberation about the mole being at risk of being cancerous, i saw the tears welling in her eyes, i was there pretending to be strong but actually i was also bleeding inside.

One week, 7 days,168 hours and 10,080 minutes to go for the result to be out, i want do my best to keep her spirit up, making her feel nice and expecting a positive result.

P/S : I Love You

22 comments:

  1. Sabar ya. Fikir +ve & Dia bg Good news juga k. Semoga dia sabar, kuat dan tabah.Amen

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  2. Please, stay strong and think positive.

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  3. Doc always scared us! Should be no problem, Don't worry ya..

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  4. Hope thinks turns out fine. Doctor are normally more cautious. Like last year I went to hospital and the Doctor insisted to operate on my swollen lymph nodes coz worry about cancer. I went for second opinion. That doctor didn't operate. Just poke needle into it and send for biopsy. And it work out fine.

    You just take one step at a time. I know your wife would be very worried. Probably can't sleep and all. Try your best to cheer her up and be with her more often during this period. She needs you by her side more than ever eventhough she might shoo shoo you to go out with your friends or what

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  5. Prayer. Hope not cancerous. In all things, commit to God.

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  6. Trust in The Lord. Do not be anxious ya.

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  7. pray and stay strong, God bless!

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  8. pray and hope is not something negative, God will listen to our prayer !! stay strong ya .

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  9. Hope everything is fine Eugene.
    Have a great weekend!

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  10. Think positive and stay strong.. Hope things turn out fine.

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  11. Dear eugene, my heart reached out for your wife. Waiting goes together with praying, so let's pray it is non malignant, which probably is.

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  12. Oh dear. Let us pray that everything will be ok. But if it's just a mole, that can be removed. God bless.

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  13. Yes, like Arthur said, pray that everything will turns up fine!

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  14. Hope for the best and leave the rest to the One above. I will be praying for u.

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  15. my heart cant stop pounding.... you update us ok.

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  16. We all have cancerous cells in our bodies all the times. Modern technologies are so advance at detecting them earlier and earlier. Most cancerous cells are actually banal. God bless.

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  17. Our prayers are with you and family.. God Bless..

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  18. Thanks guys for the kind words, appreciate it

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  19. Stay strong, she need your fully support. Hope everything is fine and alright.

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  20. I am praying for your wife's wellness...think positive...she will be fine...amin..

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