Friday, March 25, 2011

My heart bleeds............

You know one of the hardest things in life is Waiting because it can be so tormenting, you keep your fingers crossed and just waiting for the good news.

I accompanied my lovely wife for a minor surgery to remove a mole of which it suddenly bled, with blood streaming incessantly. The doctor told us that he had to send the cut mole for biopsy to determine if it could be cancerous or not.

I was there, i knew that my lovely wife was scared when the doctor told her this, words like "oncologist" "cancerous" and what not could really send shivers to anyone hearing, worse still to the one intended too.

The doctor was frank with his deliberation about the mole being at risk of being cancerous, i saw the tears welling in her eyes, i was there pretending to be strong but actually i was also bleeding inside.

One week, 7 days,168 hours and 10,080 minutes to go for the result to be out, i want do my best to keep her spirit up, making her feel nice and expecting a positive result.

P/S : I Love You
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22 comments:

  1. AstanaMarch 25, 2011 at 12:08 PM

    Sabar ya. Fikir +ve & Dia bg Good news juga k. Semoga dia sabar, kuat dan tabah.Amen

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  2. YannieMarch 25, 2011 at 12:09 PM

    Please, stay strong and think positive.

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  3. UnknownMarch 25, 2011 at 12:09 PM

    Doc always scared us! Should be no problem, Don't worry ya..

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  4. Small KucingMarch 25, 2011 at 12:19 PM

    Hope thinks turns out fine. Doctor are normally more cautious. Like last year I went to hospital and the Doctor insisted to operate on my swollen lymph nodes coz worry about cancer. I went for second opinion. That doctor didn't operate. Just poke needle into it and send for biopsy. And it work out fine.

    You just take one step at a time. I know your wife would be very worried. Probably can't sleep and all. Try your best to cheer her up and be with her more often during this period. She needs you by her side more than ever eventhough she might shoo shoo you to go out with your friends or what

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  5. UnknownMarch 25, 2011 at 1:26 PM

    Prayer. Hope not cancerous. In all things, commit to God.

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  6. LittleLambMarch 25, 2011 at 1:33 PM

    Trust in The Lord. Do not be anxious ya.

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  7. AnonymousMarch 25, 2011 at 1:52 PM

    pray and stay strong, God bless!

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  8. Anggie's JournalMarch 25, 2011 at 2:04 PM

    pray and hope is not something negative, God will listen to our prayer !! stay strong ya .

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  9. HayleyMarch 25, 2011 at 2:50 PM

    Hope everything is fine Eugene.
    Have a great weekend!

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  10. Inspired Momx1March 25, 2011 at 3:05 PM

    Think positive and stay strong.. Hope things turn out fine.

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  11. UnknownMarch 25, 2011 at 3:23 PM

    Dear eugene, my heart reached out for your wife. Waiting goes together with praying, so let's pray it is non malignant, which probably is.

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  12. suituapuiMarch 25, 2011 at 4:33 PM

    Oh dear. Let us pray that everything will be ok. But if it's just a mole, that can be removed. God bless.

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  13. ChrisAuMarch 25, 2011 at 6:52 PM

    Yes, like Arthur said, pray that everything will turns up fine!

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  14. sexyjessieMarch 25, 2011 at 7:02 PM

    Hope for the best and leave the rest to the One above. I will be praying for u.

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  15. Lily RianiMarch 25, 2011 at 11:07 PM

    my heart cant stop pounding.... you update us ok.

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  16. Kuching GuyMarch 26, 2011 at 12:03 AM

    We all have cancerous cells in our bodies all the times. Modern technologies are so advance at detecting them earlier and earlier. Most cancerous cells are actually banal. God bless.

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  17. இ Baŋäŋaz இMarch 26, 2011 at 6:41 PM

    She will be OK..

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  18. ReanaclaireMarch 27, 2011 at 12:21 AM

    Our prayers are with you and family.. God Bless..

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  19. wennMarch 27, 2011 at 12:27 AM

    god bless..

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  20. UnknownMarch 28, 2011 at 9:47 AM

    Thanks guys for the kind words, appreciate it

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  21. VickylowMarch 28, 2011 at 4:33 PM

    Stay strong, she need your fully support. Hope everything is fine and alright.

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  22. UmmiRosmaMarch 29, 2011 at 4:12 PM

    I am praying for your wife's wellness...think positive...she will be fine...amin..

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