Friday, March 18, 2011

He asked, i answered not.....................

The other evening, while having dinner and chatting away with my two boys, i was sharing with them how dangerous it could be for one to be duped into scams, cheat and illegal sexual liasion to many of the internet users, such like Facebook and what not.

I was telling them of one incident of how a gay casanova duped hundreds of victims into sex and cheated their money and belongins, and all of those victims were boys the youngest ranging from 17 and to 23 of age.

As a responsible father, i then told Jovial to be careful when adding friends into his social network accounts, then proudly he said "papa, don't worry, i won't simply add friends into my account, most of them are my school mates and church friends"

It was a nice conversation with them and i thought the matter was put to rest, suddenly Jovial asked me this," Papa, you were saying the guy (the gay guy) cheated the boys into having sex with him right, can i ask you something about it ?

I said why not son, you can ask me anything and i would awalys be glad to clear your doubts, then he hit me with this,"Papa, you see, you and mommy have sex, cos you are man and she is woman, now i want to know how can man have sex with man, how do they do it?

I was dumbfounded and lost for any anwers (not that i did not know) it was just that i did not know how to put forth the answer to him.

Then i said, " Jo, i will tell you when the time is right"

What would you say to Jovial if you were me, given the same question.

Have a great weekend guys and God bless.

P/S : Another one bites the dust

19 comments:

  1. *open mouth widely*
    scratching head
    no comment yet. blank.

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  2. LOL... another bom from your son kar? Well, if he's old enough to throw you such question then he is matured enough to receive the right answer!

    Have a great weekend!

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  3. 到图书馆借一本有关性的书吧。“如何向孩子说性”之类的。。。。有时还有图片哦。。。跟孩子一起阅读,应该很不错。。。

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  4. Err... I would not start this topic until "the time is right".

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  5. If you must teach your son, teach him from God's perspective, and not yours...

    "Because they DO THIS, God has given them over to shameful passions. Even the women pervert the natural use of their sex by unnatural acts. In the same way the men give up natural sexual relations with women and burn with passion for each other. Men do shameful things with each other, and as a result they bring upon themselves the punishment they deserve for their wrongdoing. Because those people refuse to keep in mind the true knowledge about God, he gave them up to corrupted minds, so that they do the things that they should not do. They know that God's law says that people who live in this way deserve death. Yet, not only do they continue to do these very things, but they even approve of others who do them. (Romans 1:26-28,31 - GNB)

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  6. Can answer one.. the other day I baru told my girl how men do.. haaha.. as cleff always say... sumbat! lol...

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  7. Another hard task being a parents (hehe)...I think I will agree with you. When the time is right, he will get the answer...

    Happy weekend Eugene :)

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  8. matrixqc, you better pray hard to that god of yours that none of your lovedones are gay. They would be such pitiful souls having an ignorant and non compassionate relative like yourself.

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  9. I see that I touched a nerve here! Good. Don't get me wrong. These are God's words (warning) taken from the Bible to us. These words seems harsh and cruel but they are not mine words. They are words from the living God. The same God who loves people and is patient and kind, waiting for sinners to repent and turn to Him. He is patient until one's last breath. After that, judgment. A cousin of mine went for a sex-change and had married a man for several years and later was divorced. Nobody told him it was a wrong thing to do. Lots of regrets later in his life the last I heard. Peace to the person who commented.

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  10. So much scams on the internet nowadays, it is wise to supervise your kids. A right move, explain when the time is right..have a nice weekends bro..

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  11. Hmmm, I wonder if Jovial would ever ask his youth pastos? That will make him really double dumbfounded. :)

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  12. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    how the kids know that ya..

    anyway have a nice weekend

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  13. Huh! 4896 question *shake head* Bananaz might be dumbfounded for a few moment dunno what to say if asked this question face to face haha.

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  14. *blank*.... this is the problem when you have smart kids *wink*

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  15. Thank you guys for all the comments,,,,

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  16. I think i must say sorry to the commentors from Matrixqc the other of anti it nick stupid Matriqc...

    We are all entitled to our own opinions and choices ...so whatever it is it is the respect that we should give to others, ya

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