There had beeen so many occasions i lost my cool because of this, there had been many time i lost good sleeps because of this as well and there had been arguments between me and my lovely due to this too.
I used to have this habit of calling up my missus often enough that incensed her when she went out entertaining her clients or sometimes her overseas collegues in the evening. Used to ask her questions like this," What time will you finish dinner?" " Will be heading anywhere else after dinner, if yes then what time will you be back?"
When she did not reach home the time she said she would, i would get worried, i would keep calling her and when she could not answer(may be it was noisy) i would just stay awake and worry sick, pacing myself in the living room and losing my sleep, usually this situation would get me very mad at my lovely wife.
We talked about this problem many times over, i told her i was only concern of her safety if it was late into the night, she always told me not to wait up for her of which i could not lah.
Last night she went out entertaining her overseas colleagues again and this time i was trying very hard not to "disturb" her and you know what ?it was hard.
And i am sure she knew that i would still be concerned even if i did not call.........good night Eugene.
P/S : It's a little too hard but a little too good for the relationship.