Thursday, December 23, 2010

My Jovial will be back.....................

"ain't no sunshine when he's gone, it's no warmth when he is away, ain't no sunshine when he is gone, he's gone far too long............" a funny song that just reminds how much i miss him.....

Last Sunday, sent my Jovial for a 4 nights 5 days Church camp, no handphone allowed, parents were discouraged to call unless emergency or vice versa. The good news is, there was no calls from him, i guess no emergency lah...........

You know during these 5 days without him around, it seemed a little weird at home and it was a feeling of "missing much" especially on the part of my missus.

I do miss him a lot too but it is a far cry as far as mothers are concerned, just the other day while i was talking with my lovely wife on how much we missed Jovial, suddenly i brought up one incident about a Special Night when my wife was crying so desperately as if she had just lost someone........

It was in 1997, when the two months confinement period was done,thus we had to send Jovial to the babysitter, i remember vividly,how from the moment my lovely wife stepped out from the babysitter's house, her tears were already welling up in her eyes and she totally broke down in the car on the way back home.

It was such a feeling from a mother,i reckon most man can't identify with. How great is a mother's love towards their young but then again there are crazy mothers too who abuse or let their boy friends abuse their own children.......sigh

Today our Jovial will be back after a 5 days sojourn and the first thing my lovely wife reminded me to do was to call her immediately when i pick him up in the afternoon.

An early Christmas greeting from me to you guys, let us foster the bond further............

P/S : If Christmas makes you happy then in return make someone else happy

18 comments:

  1. Yeah, mother's love is the greatest love on earth! I can truly feel that after I have got my own kids, a mother can really sacrifice for her kids!

    Hail to all the mothers on earth!

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  2. Just in time to celebrate the Holy Weekend together as a family.

    Merry Christmas to you and your family, Eugene

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  3. I understand the feeling when you miss somebody very dear. It won't be long, and he will be back. Merry Christmas to you and family..

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  4. he is tai kor jai....
    he is very independent..

    Merry Xmas to u and family

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  5. Yes, we go thru this phases of life.. when they go college, sigh.. a really empty filling..

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  6. Merry Christmas to u & family :)

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  7. Yes! Mothers are the best in the world. :D

    Merry Christmas and Happy New year to you. :)

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  8. Yes, believe it or not, i had de same experince like ur missus when i sent my elder girl to the bbssiter home the first time.LOL!!

    Merry Xmas to you and family. Have a blissful night

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  9. Merry Christmas to you and your family Eugene...God bless :)

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  10. He's a big boy now, his first camp, I presume? He will be back in no time and you can give him all your kisses, mvah, mvah, secretly.

    Merry Christmas to you and your family!

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  11. dont know for whatever reason, i had tears in my eyes as i read your wife cried...

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  12. Merry Christmas to you too and glad that you'll have your jovial back today :)

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  13. relaks bro.... soon he be back. And, good to let him away too, learn to be independent. haha..
    Merry Xmas ya!

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  14. Eugene, have a joyful Christmas Eve to you and your lovely family!! Ho! Ho! Ho!^-^

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  15. Thanks guys for all the comments now have a blast,,,

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  16. mother's love is above all, so is father's love. hehehe

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  17. It sounded so familiar to me, I cried too when I sent my elder to babysitter. I also hate those women who let their boy friends abused their own kids.

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