Lunch break

I was having lunch with my Jovial yesterday, i've always liked this moment of having lunch with him, the time we talk like friends, the time i teach him a little here and there about life, the time i admit to him my weaknesses, my flaws and my shortcomings as a husband, a father and a man.

There we were, in the midst of our lunch, my Jovial was asking me about AIDS, he wanted to know what AIDS was about. I explained to him what it was, how did one contract it and i was sharing with him about how dangerous it was for a teen to get involved in unsafe sex and multple sex.

He knew what safe sex for he knew what condom was but he did not know what multiple sex was all about, he wanted me to explaine, before i could explaine further to him, i asked him a question such like this," Jovial,besides mommy, can papa have sex with another women ?' adamantly he said no, then i explained to him multiple sex meaning that i was having sex with more than one partner than i am supposed to and that's very dangerous.

We were talking about how bad things sometimes can be seemed ok to indulge in, such as sex and how they thought it was ok to have sex without the responsibility that came with it.

You might think i am crazy sharing all this with my son, but i bet to differ, as far as i am concerned i rather be open to him about his curiousity and telling him myself than exposed him to be taught wrongly by others. (There had been times i told my sons that i would sometimes do whatever that would leave them some good memories for them to remember about the childhood, like this one, shaving bald together...........................)


P/S : Sharing the truth is sublimity