Tell me if this is true,for i am confused myself as well, so the story goes.......................
For about 3 to 4 times a week, i will send a son of a good friend of mine to school for he is attending the same school as my eldest, albeit different sessions, his noon, mine morning, both of them are 13 years old and their school is co-ed.
Usually during those journeys to school, they will give me a lot of insight of how a teen at his age thinks and behaves, there is just so much for me to learn from this boy, and in a way it helps me to better understand the sons of my own thus making me a better papa.
One day, i was on a subject about sex with this boy and i was asking him if there were any friends of his have started talking about sex and if there were any of them fiddling already with porn materials.
He told me they did talk about it and the porn stuff and all and then he was telling this in Mandarin," uncle Eugene, not only we boys watch the porn, even the girls are doing it as well" then i continued," so did you guys, boys and girls talk about it," then he said "no lah uncle Eugene, only boys but there is this one girl, XXXX (the name) said she loved to watch it and she had even done it."
Then pretensiously i asked," done what?" he then continue," done means have sex lah and she told us her boyfriend was a 19 year old boy" i kept quiet then i probed further.
" May be she is only joking with you boys," adamantly he shot back at me," no Uncle Eugene, i can be quite sure about that," then i asked,"how can you be so sure?" and what he then told me shocked me litterally.
He said," Because she invited a friend of mine "to do it " with her." i said," may be it is all rumours ," " No uncle Eugene, i am sure because she also invited me to do it with her" at this point i was dumbfounded.
Note : To continue tomorrow
A Bible quote to share, " Train up a child the way he should go and when he is old,he will not depart from it" Proverb 22:6
P/S : Sometimes what we parents think is right can be wrong