So the story continues from my yesterday's post......................
As a parent i thought it might nice for me to caution this boy about the sex and its consequences, so i was asking the boy again did he reject the girl's invite or was he in any way enticed to it, i was happy for this boy when he told me this in mandarin,
" Uncle Eugene, when the girl XXX asked me to go to her house, i said no to her but then uncle Eugene the girl asked me if i was scared," then what did you say or what did she say to you, i asked," Uncle eugene she told me don't worry, she told me she knew how to use 安全套 (condom)."
I am pretty sure what this son of my good friend told me was true for i have known this boy since very young. Everytime i send him to school, he will share his problems, his school life with me, seriously he is just like my own son.
When he was done sharing with me his story, he asked a favor from me that i should not tell his parents about what he shared with me, then i asked why....
He said his parents still thought that he was still a small boy and they would not believe him.
P/S : I am still learning to be a better papa
Have to teach the boys that they don't have to "be a man" to be a man. Real men have brains and strong self-control...
ReplyDeletesigh..how to handle these type of cases ah.. i as a parent, pening.. have to learn.. what to say and teach them without flying into a temper...
ReplyDeleteit's a privilege to have a teenager share this with you. i think when we were a teenager, we would not even share such secrets with any adult for that matter. i hope my relationship with my kids will be so close one day that they can talk to me abt anything too
ReplyDeleteI am shell-shocked! These boys are...well..."corrupted" in a way! Bad parenting perhaps? Or negligence?
ReplyDeleteAnd yeah....that girl....he's a bitch! Haih.... :( What has happened to our world?
ReplyDeleteAll blamed to high tech gadget like mobil camera phone, internet, website like FB and so on. The teens are well exposed to all kind of porns and sex videos.
ReplyDeleteTeenagers get their sex education through practical. I'm just speechless.
ReplyDeletelucky he can share it with u instead of gathering all this in his mind! I guess that's why we always say treat our kids like our friends!
ReplyDeletewow!! ey at their age now know about condom thingy dy! hehe i wish one day i can meet u n share wit u my thoughts. u seems so caring person! n am sure u're a gud papa for ur kids. :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with what STP said.
ReplyDeletewei u're like his buddy since he is telling u this kinda stuff u know? :)
ReplyDeletedon't worry. U r sure a good papa. That boy treated u as a good friend too since he is willing to share with you this story.
ReplyDeleteApart from the lack of parental guidance, we could surely blame the main culprits....the corrupted officials who turn a blind eye on the DVD peddlers and cyber cafes all for the sake of $$$ bribes. So easy to get porn via these 2.
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It's hard to share my intimate secrets with my parents, what's more for the boy?
ReplyDeleteHe's trusting you to be his buddy just to share his secrets with you. I'm sure you be like his other papa giving him good advice and guidance.
Well one of the top porn star in USA is Jayna Oso who is from Brunei. She is a mix of malay and irish..
ReplyDeletehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jayna_Oso
Thank you guys for all the comments, appreciate it
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