Not a very good day for me yesterday,nothing serious but it was kind of emotional drain for me.It all started with me, then with him and finally with her.
So let start with me, not feeling too well yesterday,having some headache,may be it was due to the erratic weather condition.
Now let begin with him, him is my wonderful Marvell, picked him up from school about 4,with the intention of getting myself some rest but instead i was told by Marvell's teacher that he'd vomitted twice and he looked frail and tired.
So let sum it all up with her, her is my lovely wife. She called at about 5,asked if i could go running with her, i said no and telling her that Marvell was not well and vomitted.
She came back, the first thing she told me was something like this,"sorry forgot to tell you, i have got dinner tonight, my collegue from KL arrival 8 and dinner at 8.30" I asked her if it was important for her to go, her answer was ambiguous.
Didn't know why her answer gave me uneasy feeling and i got kind of mad not at her but primarily with myself, so at night as i was tugging in my two wonderful boys to sleep, i was thinking and was thinking hard.
It is fuuny sometimes, i should have told her what i wanted to tell her but i chose not to and rather had my anger overwhelmed me and showing my sour face to her, or may be i was presuming that she knew why i was angry and she did not react the way that i expected.
I should have said to her nicely something like this," can you say "No' to your collegues because your son is sick" or she can even excuse herself from the last minute invite by saying that she had other things to attend to but i did not do all that, instead i got angry.
Funnier still, after having married to this wonderful wife of mine for 14 years, i still have communication problem with her......................now i know this
P/S : Presumption will sometimes leads to destruction