Friday, June 25, 2010

Cold War..................

I ain't no historian and this post is definately not talking about the historic "cold war" between Western Power and Eastern Block instead it is about the my domestic "cold war" bewteen myself and Jovial.

"Houston are you ready ? " Eugene are you ready ? " all system are you ready for launch?" "ready" " all system ready for launch, please standby" " 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1" mission accomplished, heading for "cold war"

I pursed my lips for two days and not been talking to Jovial for two days already for i felt it was time that i had to be firm with him due to his lack of sense of appreciation for things that he had and enjoyed.

It all started on Wednesday when he asked if he could play computer game and i agreed with one condition when he was asked to stop, stop he must. What infuriated me was he showed me a direspectful hand gesture (Not the middle finger sign, thank God) when i asked him to stop. Disdainly, he just walked off after i told him off..............

So the " cold war" ensued between father and son, usually would be the first one to talk to him whenever we have an argument but this time i think i should react otherwise.

I wll let it continue untill tomorrow for Friday is my happy day and tomorrow i shall be glued to the MTV for MJ's music marathon.

Happy weekend folks

P/S : Trying out ways to teaching my youngs,,,,

21 comments:

  1. wah... daddy and son 'cold war'... come weekend, you 2 be talking again I am sure... have a nice week ahead bro!

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  2. hey, father and son no kat yeh sau one.. i always had tiff with my girl.. it lasted till evening the most, then must talk already.. but cannot remember who starts talking first..
    anyway, who start first is not a matter..why stress ourselves? go on, make peace before this day is through..all the best!

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  3. So good that you can glue to the MTV in memory of MJ. I couldn't here.

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  4. oh...may be he don't know why are you angry with? normally, when come to this kind of situation between son and father, i will be the middleman, let the young man know what is wrong and let him move his 1st step to facing his father...pls forgive him...

    happy weekend to u and family!

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  5. Not easy handling such situation huh?
    But hopefully things will be alright for you both, and hopefully Jovial learns a lesson ;)

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  6. sigh. if me cold war with my dad, can till 2 months lor. :(

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  7. are you sure that's the way to tell your son how to respect you?

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  8. Girl from DownunderJune 25, 2010 at 12:08 PM

    "....Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil." ~ Ephesians 4:26

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  9. It's like that bro. Conflicts arise/ :)

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  10. Aiyor...maybe it was the tone you use. Be gentle...love and be loved in return!

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  11. Pengsan..hope by weekend you two will be talking again.

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  12. teenagers lah!!!!! we were once like this too.... defiant, rebellious :p

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  13. I find it difficult to live under one roof and not talking to each other... reading your post made me wonder how will I react when facing the same situation.

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  14. Will the cold war and influence him to be a "small gas" guy later? I always think that boy need to raise to be a gentleman and girl not to be ferocious. Several cold war like this would it influence his character or problem solving skill later. Gosh seem I am creating more problem to you.

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  15. It's a "norm" to have cold war. Before this week ends, I'm sure you two will start talking.

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  16. hehehe...Happy Father's Day once again

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  17. the headache a parent goes thru .. sigh.. hope everything's better now..

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  18. We are certainly living in the age where the virtual world are given more attention than the physical world around us.

    Make love bro, not war :-D

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  19. games is the favorite of children. need to arrange time for games and study.

    cold war will ended soon. dont worry.

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  20. Hope the war has ended by now. Hv a good chat with him abt the incident ya.

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