When i read about the recent so called sex scandal of one very famous director cum actor from Singapore committing extra marital affair, few things got into my head and i began to ask.
Why do men stray?
1) Is it because it is a norm for a man to stray when one's achieved fame and fortune, to show that with these two elements, we can exihibit that we can have things our ways?
2)Or because so many years into the marriage, the legitimate sex life has become some sort of routine, or "open and get it done with quick" kind or because we need to get some wild things to rejuvenate the already stale sex life and to rekindle the fire?
3)Or is it because the decay of the society, telling us that having marital affairs is not a big crime as long as both parties are willing?
4)Or is it because we think that as long as we keep our family well fed,then it is only fair that we should reward ourselves with some flings after slogging so hard to provide for the family?
And why do women still stay when their men have strayed?
1) Is it because women have the kindest of heart, thus not willing to see the family crumbled and the children suffered?
2)Or it is because the love of the women for the men is the testimony of love conquers all even the worst infidelity of the man?
3)Or it is again that women believe that they can change the men, once we admit our mistakes and pledge to stay clean and never to commit that sin again?
4)Or it is finally women believe that man's sexual desire is in some ways insatiable, thus as long as we provide for the family then it is "one eye open, one eye close"?
But as far as i am concerned, it is a crazy world out there and guess no one is spared from temptation to be fairy said but to do one thing right before the devil starts prowling, let us instill that one character as far as i am concerned that is to have "The Fear of God" in us.
P/S : The conclusion is to fear God and keep his commandments