They say sex is part of marriage rightly or wrongly, and good sex is often perceived as a corner stone to a lasting and fulfilling marriage rightly or wrongly again.
Over the weekend, me, my wife, a dear lady friend(divorced) and her partner were having some drinks, as i was talking with her partner, somehow or rather i could not resist eavesdropping at another conversation taking place between my wife and the lady friend, the conversation that really took me by surprise.
I digressed my chat with the male friend, and i joined in the conversation with the ladies because i simply found the topic so immensely interesting and mind boggling at the same time. The lady friend of ours was telling my wife that she wanted to take her 14 years old boy (from her previous marriage) to some kind of tradition massage to make sure that the boy would grow up to have a satisfactory penis length and to prevent him from any sexual inadequacy when he gets married in the future.
This lady friend as i could understand is stigmatised by a failed marriage resulting from sexual problems that began from the beginning of her previous marriage till the end of it , all in the name of sexual dyfunctions mainly from the male side.
Her ex husband suffered from pre-E condition and he was not willing to seek any medical remedy to correct the problems and was so adamant that he was all right sexually and his refusal in seeking medical remedy had in way deprived his wife of some kind of sexual satisfaction she longed for.
The qualm that she once suffered has prompted her to the extent that she was adamant in ways that she wanted her son to grow up to be sexually able and the wife of her future daugther in law would not suffer the fate like she did that eventually ravaged her marriage.
I was in a way arguing with her that she should not impose her fears upon her child rightly or wrongly, instead i was telling her that instead she should inculcate good values like respect, communication, love and the sanctity of marriage.
I am not here to say who is wrong who is right but i truly believe that a marriage should be fundamentally based of love and from love it opens up the door of communication and i too believe that good sex is vital in a marriage, thus a candid communication is even more crucial in keeping the flame of marriage.
Because of love, i rather masturbate than taking someone else to bed
P/S : Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me.