1 ) Can you spend the rest of your life with someone who always thinks that he/she is right and who always belittle your effort and he/she is not game at all to hear you out not even brief ones?
2) Can you still continue in a business venture with someone who always thinks that he/she can come our with better ideas than you and he/she never consults you for any major decision, and you feel that you are being alienated?
3)How can you tell your parents that the monthly allowance that you give them is the best that you can do, and yet they feel that you are lying?
A good friend cum my general insurance agent faces the problem as stated in (1), her husband seems so obstinate that my friend's ideas and opinions are never even once considered, untill she found out that the husband has defaulted on the housing loan over 4 months now and other problems and the husband is still adamant that he can get things fixed.
The problem as stated in (2) comes from my old school mate, he too feels helpless at the behaviour of his business partner who always thinks that he is so good and never consult him for any opinions. Sadly, some of the major decisions that his partner made have been a blunder.
And i am facing the problem of no 3, she got a bit upset with me for the monthly allowance that i give her and the problem is that that's the best i can do...as for this case, sometimes i am damn tired .......
P/S : To be or not to be, sometimes it just can be up to me.