I attended my youngest sister's 20th wedding anniversary last saturday.(will talk about the anniversary do next few posts,when i get the pictures), it was kind of family affair with the family members from both sides and few very close friends of my sister's.
I was there early with my lovely wife and my two wonderful boys, not long after which my mother, my sister and her daugther in law came in, and i was kind of curious when i did not see my nephew with his newly wed wife, who is now pregnant with baby dues in November.
As an uncle, i am not that sanguine of his life after the marriage, he is young at only 22 and soon to be a dad, not bad looking and a sweet talker, i am worried to say the least of how he is gonna live up to be a responsible husband,lest say being the father.
Over the dinner, i was trying not to ask his wife, my mother or even my sister on why this nephew of mine was not here with us, but it really bothered me but then again i refrained myself from probing further as it was a happy occasion for the family and i regarded it that my nephew was an adult now, he should know what to do.
The record of mine nephew has not been at all savory before and after the marriage and i really hope that there will not be another unpleasant news coming from my nephew's side as far as his marriage is concerned.
I really hope i can talk to both of them (my nephew and his wife) about all that matters in a marriage as early as i can, if you know what i mean ?
Q) Sould i talk to them, risking myself being called a busybody or let them chart their own course?
P/S : Marriages are really made in heaven, but the problem is we are on earth