Lately, i love this song so much from Neyo (Mad)with one line in the song that i really like,"i dont want to go to bed, mad at you and i really dont want you to go to bed, mad at me" and just last night i was in way tossed into such scene,my feeling was synonymous with Neyo's song.
There is no wrong or right, no your fault or my fault or not even your excuses or mine, in a marriage we sometimes are too overshadowed by our daily duties that we tend to forget the existence of our partner, the daily grind sometimes does get us down pyshically, hence we forget to go back to the basis of a relationship, to touch, to talk, to caress, to stroke, to hug, to kiss and to get intimate with our partner.
Last night, it was the same routine, husband and wife came back from work, dinner cooked and eaten, sat through with the children's home work, caught the news in between, by then when everything was done with, it was the call of slumber for the children, the wife tugged them to sleep, and it was only 10 at night.
The husband sneaked into the bedroom, the children were far from sleeping, the husband wanted to spend some times alone with the wife, but the wife was too oblivious to the husband's atlantic calling SOS for love, may be the wifey was too tired, so the husband decided to let the beautiful wife to wander far away from her sleep.
Feeling uptight and didnt know what to do, the husband went out to meet up with a old friend, had a drink or two, and the curtain fell and the story ended.
I guess it was the effect of my PMS syndrom last night (hahahah), feeling a bit lost. So let us remember that let us go back to the basis all the times.
P/S : The magic of a relationship is to stick to the basis