Ten minutes ago i received a call on my mobile, i answered the call without looking at the caller's number, over the other end the voice was like someone who was fuming mad, before i could say a word, the following statement ensued " Eugene, i just bashed up that mother fucker, now i really saw it with my own two eyes" it was the call from my brother in law, and the mother fucker who got bashed up was my sister's boy friend.
I was in a state of shock for while, but as a married man i could identify with him then i said to him" well done, that mother fucker deserved it" as part of the family members, i have never intefered the other family member's domestic affairs, i could only give my opinions when asked for.
My sister's marriage has been on the rock for a long while, who's wrong and who's right, it is entirely none of my business, really but before the marriage could end legally, i reckon that adultery is virtually immorally despicable and legally wrong, and i am sure both parties are guilty in certain degrees in bringing down the marriage, but the involvement of the third party before the marriage could reach a legal conclusion may spruce up more problems.
Now that the event has taken the ugly turn, and i believe that mother fucker should come to his senses that no matter how much you love that someone's else wife or merely taking advantage of someone else's wife, he should be responsible to his own action or rather he should had expected this bashing up to happen in no time.
I believe that there are many many problems that could happen in a marriage, it could be financially, mentally , emotionally or even sexually but the fundamental or the core foundation to a lasting marriage is to talk it out, and to believe that the love you have for the one you married to should transcend all differences and difficulities.
If one day, should i feel stale in my sex life with my wife, i should talk it out with her, instead of satisfying myself with others who could take me to heaven but end me up in hell, but in the reverse i should ask myself if i have satisfied her sexually as well, it must work both ways.
If one day, i am broke , i should talk it out with my wife too, instead of acting brave and incuring a lot of debts which eventually could crumble the marriage.
Please excuse me, if i had sounded like a professional marriage counseller but then agian what i wrote is what i believe.
P/S: Marriages are indeed made in heaven but they are at the threshhold of hell too.