There is this very dear lady friend of mine and she is in dilemma, dilemma in the sense of caught in a situation of "pulling out, calling it quit" or "scared of losing face"..........
.She was sharing her "dilemma" with me and I said to her that may be I could just share it in my blog and let my readers share their opinions.....
My dear lady friend is her mid 50s now,she is a two time divorcee, when she had then been married for the third time now but the problems surfaced not long after her third marriage that the husband does not care much about "family finance',"bad temper" (he could just bang the table and walk off,leaving the poor lady friend in tears,I know cos I witnessed that)
My dear friend is not dependent on him financially as he is kind of bad managing finance and he is also a divorcee.
I guess now she could not take it anymore, she wanted out but then the problem is she was afraid that she might be jeered by her friends when they found out that that she was divorced again.she said she dread to hear this,"see I told you not to get remarried" "see i told you,you have been better off being single and bringing up the children" blah blah blah
When I was done chatting with her on FB,I told her this,I knew that she still loved this guy but then again if the headaches,the pain and the frustration outweighs everything else,then she should really think it deep and hard about spending the rest of her life with him.
Sometimes,I wonder why can't a person change when one gets older ?
P/S : I love you but I can't stand you