She looked extremely tired,not long after dinner,she was retiring early to bed, on the bed side,I told her to call in sick the next day cos she really looked worn out,sore throat or just drained........then she said.
" I cannot,I have tonnes of emails to reply,I have meeting to attend tomorrow" after hearing this, I turned off the bed room light,saying good night to her.
Early this morning about 5.59 am, when the alarm buzzed, I told my lovely wife to continue her sleep,assuring her that I would "kau tim" or handle the boys to prepare them for school. While I was preparing milk for my boy,I saw her already up as well,making sure that boys school stuffs are intact...........I guess a mother will always be a mother.
Now this is no joke,if a woman is stressed out in the office,inundated with barrage of emails,telephone calls,meetings,dead lines,complaints,sales calls and more of this and that,from 9 to 5,it is really physically demanding and mental weary,what more if the subordinates suck and the superiors are unreasonable,it would add further malaise to the already stressful 9 to 5.
You know,sometimes I really hate it,when I see her vegetating in front of her notebook,answering the non-stop emails,one answered,two to come........
Thank God for my wife has got good superiors and cooperative down the lines but I really hope she will learn to de'stress when time warrants and may the Good Lord bless her with good health
So if you are a boss and if you have those working moms working under you,please give them some avenues to "chill and hang lose",please do not let them lose their health,sanity and happiness.
Problems will always always be there but let them find the joy of solving them.....
P/S : I Love You.....my dear