My friend asked me to in a way set up a poll,soliciting opinions from my readers,when we argued over one torny issue in regards with sex and in relation with second wife or third..........he asked me "what if one day your wife cannot satisfy you sexually,what would you do?"
I said I believe in the wedding vow,"through sickness and to death do us part" he then said i was talking "cock" that I did not mean what I said and then he countinued that my wife should allow me to legitimately to have another wife for that "particular reason" for he said that when the Maker made woman,she was to tend to the man's need.
Then jokingly I said to him,if that did happen,I rather resort to masturbation then to ask her to allow me to have another wife,again he said I was talking "cock". He gave an example,he said back in the old,traditional Chinese thinking,if the wife cannot "produce" a son,then she is obligated to let her husband to have another wife,he said that's the same with sex too.
I then told him,marriage is not about sex alone,he argued but sex was about anything a man wanted in a marriage to have sex ligitimately and that's the Maker's idea,he reiterated.
I am not putting up a poll here,don't like to do it for I believe everyone is entitled to one's opinion but really I am just thinking why is his Maker making a woman a "slave" to a man's insatiable needs?
P/S : Seriously,through sickness and through health,till death do us part