Is it a general perception or a man or a woman's narrow mindedness, if they see a married man and another married woman,that someone they know, talking like good old buddies,laughing away and they thought of something fishy ?
I was with my unit trust agent having coffee yesterday, a lady of whom we have since became good friend, we would meet up in the same coffee shop across my office and that's the only place i find most convenient to meet.
So we were talking business, chatting about family, hers and mine, she being such a jovial type of person and I being such a I reckon easy type of guy, so everytime we meet, there tend to be laughters and some bantering.....I was on the way back to my office,after the business was done, crossed path with a friend.
I stopped and talked to him for a while then sheepishly he asked," Wai, that one your girlfriend, ka, always see the both of you one?" Period
Can I have a good friend who happens to be married and making her my buddy?
I won't give a hoot about all these wrong perception and i won't bother to explain but then again,don't they know if they make such a wrong remarks, it could be detrimental and damaging sometimes.......
Have a great weekend and god bless
P/S : If something is important to you, nothing else matters