Seriously speaking, how many of us really take the effort in making our marriages work and how many of us really think that the longer we are into marriage, the more we should work to make it happy.
It really saddened me,while i was talking to a dear friend yesterday of whom (the husband and wife)i have known them for 20 over years now,they started out as the most loving couple during our younger days but then.............
They are like 2 persons living under the same roof but in different world now,as a good friend to the both of them,when opportunity presented itself where i can talk to one of them, i really wanted to know.
The wife was telling me, marriage was normal but to her it was already like "you do your things and i do mine"
She is a busy business woman and the husband a network marketer,she was not interested in joining him, neither was he willing to be tagged along to her so called dinners and functions.
When she is back from work, he will be out attending meetings or sponsoring down lines and when it comes to Sunday, the wife will be so tired and the husband will still be going out network marketing.
The wife was telling me she was so used to such a marriage and probably the husband would also think likewise, therefore they just go on like that.
Here i am sincerely wishing my friends to go back to the times when love was all around and to really find time to hold hands once again,to walk in the park and to look into each other eyes and saying," I Love You" and rekindle that fire.
We don't have to be the most romantic person in the world to hold hands, to kiss and to hug each other but the love for each other should surpass our busy schedules, our business, our money and ourselves.
Happy Friday and make sure to go and kiss your spouse ya.....and God Bless
P/S : Tonight's the night i am going to make it happened.....