Let me begin by asking you this, what would your reaction or respond be if I told you this and assuming that both of us are good friend, moreover both our boys are studying in the same school ?
"Hey so and so, lately i kind of notice that your boy likes to hang around with those "little naughty" boys and girls at the coffee shop outside the school,just be careful with him because i always sit there and some of those " little boys" are not too good.playing truant, smoking and all?
So, what would your respond be ?
And i am not sure the respond i got from my friend when i told her the above can be construed as me trying to show off to her that my boy is better than her son or I purposely wanting to shame her that she is not bringing up her son properly, when she responded such like this.
" Ya lor, my son is not like your son, so good, study good, character good and no need tuition one, my son can't be like that lah."
I got a bit agitated, so i cut her off by saying, " sorry so and so, i was only telling you that just be careful lah, who knows one day my boy will be like that too and i hope you can tell me if you see him doing that."
Have a great long weekend and god bless
P/S : 幸福不是必然的...........