Thursday, October 28, 2010

Treat her like a lady..............

Just what he would he do to her behind closed door? To think of it, it gives me goose bump already
Was at a coffee shop for tea break, out of nowhere i heard a guy's voice blurting profanity in Hokkien something like this, " Lu Ke Keong kan lah, " go and get fuc**d, Chao CB " The scorn came from a modern, fashion savvy guy in his mid 30s directed at his girlfriend or may be wife.( i must say, she was a pretty petite lady)

The guy's face was so consumed with anger and oblivious to other patrons as opposed to the lady's expressions of shyness and helplessness. It was quite a drama at that juncture, profusely he was still hurling vulgarity at her and all she could do was to sit there blankly. Period.

I don't know what happened next, i left as soon as i finished my food. I just can't imagine how can a man would degrade his girlfriend or wife in such a fashion and in public.

I am sure there are many instances of ladies being abused silently out there, i am sure that they are so helpless and are always at the mercy of their man, may be they've tried to escape their man's dominance or bondage, somehow they failed.


P/S : Just don't think you are weak, if not you are already beaten.....

19 comments:

  1. used to be in a bad relationship. Until one day I cant take it no more and fought back. I dumped him with the little dignity I had left. should have done it earlier but I guess it's better than none =)

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  2. my heart goes out to the lady :(

    really dumbfounded man...

    how can this guy just get away with his vulgarity and inhumanity????????????

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  3. Well...he shouldn't have done that right? :/

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  4. Sigh... too many rude men these days.. scolding 4 letter words in the public =_="
    Just hope she'll be ok, and stand up for herself!

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  5. I dunno why they want to hang around with such men - I see them around all the time...sweet young things with guys-the-mums-never-taught. Is it the money? Definitely not the looks - the guys don't even look good...not like Eugene. Hehehehehe!!!!

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  6. There are many domestic violence / abuse going on daily, sadly most women choose to stay silent. I'm a woman, and neither do I understand them.

    I'm sorry but I do not pity this lady. She allows herself to be treated such way by her man. Others could not do much unless she helps herself first - leave him, report the abuse or anything.

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  7. The disadvantage side of being too timid... your spouse sure 'climb over your head' and bully you 'gao gao', sigh~!=_=

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  8. wah...that man so rude! The lady should just shout back and challege him.

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  9. Don't know why there are ladies who are still in an abusive relationship.

    I hoped that nothing bad will happen to her.

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  10. *sigh*... i believe issues should be discussed closed door.That guy ...must be some bengs.

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  11. Angel: you are my man i mean my girl,, yes dump him, if he is not worthy.

    Kristie/Tekkaus : mine too, he should not have but then again...

    Hayley : Yes too many of rude guys now..sigh

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  12. that is mentally abusive relationship. i hope she will wake up and leave soon

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  13. Grrrrrrrrr...what kind of man is that!

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  14. Cynthia : Yes bingo utterly rude

    Gold flower :Thank i like this word mentally abusive, how true

    Kathy : really i don't know

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  15. Uh! Hate this kind of guy. And never downgrade a woman. That's the worst thing we can do to them.

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  16. Hi Eugene! I had a great time being back reading your entries, many are very meaningful and some are just adorable :)

    I hope all the ladies could be strong and do what we know is right.However, we always easily advise another lady to do what is right but when it is our time it'll be so hard to refuse the emotional part.. I guess that's what makes a woman?

    Hopefully we can do what we know is right and do it gracefully :)

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  17. Yeah, if i'm u... I would go there speak at him. He is so rude... no matter.. I'm wondering if he scolding his own mother... how his mother would feel?

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  18. Oh! I heard these type of vulgar words from my neighborhood before. As for now, he is directing all the scorn to his parents. He just got married and got a newborn baby girl. I can foresee him scolding all these words to his wife and kids in the near future. Sigh...

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