Feel like bash him up and slap her awake.....

Too bad,my weekend is or soon to be "was not" as happy as i wanted it to be.... so the story goes.

I was enjoying my morning breakfast with my lovely wife, suddenly a call from a 74 years old auntie came to my mobile, saying," eugene,where are you, need to talk about a so and so, now that i have prove that so and so is having an affair, confirmed by his own friend." i said ok,i would go and see what i can do to help.

Went to meet the 74 years old auntie and the rest of her children in one air conditioned coffeeshop, a lot of deliberation and discussion, then i asked the 74 years old and her daughter whose husband was the accused if they wanted to know the truth and there is only on way to find out the truth, that's too hear it from the horse's mouth.

I summoned the alleged suspect husband to meet up with us, he hesitated but finally agreed, waited not long, he charged into the coffees shop then like a wild boar he started scolding his wife in public saying something," so what do you want, you are happy now lah, calling your gang here to question me." I was not pleased with him at all, so were the rest who were present, i kept my cool and i dragged him out to another table outside the coffeeshop.

I asked straight to his face, did he have a girlfriend outside, he denied then i told him the 74 years old auntie confirmed the his alleged affair from his good friend, acted non-chalant, he called his witness friend. At this point i could tell he was lying already.

Then his friend, was confronted by the 74 years old lady about the truth of what he said to her, his friend kept quiet but the 74 years old lady was quick to react and challenged his friend to swear, his silence and the silence of the alleged suspect husband was as good as true.

And on the same day, the wife moved out from their house, kind of impromto and she was determined to call the marriage done and over with.............another divorce is brewing.

After the moving out, i took the 74 years old lady for dinner and the news i heard from this lady got me infuriated to the max and i wish she could have told me earlier and i could have bashed the lady's husband up and i could have slapped the lady awake that she should have left him long ago,with his bad temper and the only one thing i cannot tolerate no matter what, "beating up a lady,wife ka,girlfriend ka, no way...........

It is my ardent belief that no man should lay his hand on a lady in whatever situation and a woman should leave that man should it have happened the first time.....

It always puzzles of why some marriages can't work and why men should go and have a fling outside marriage. Take this case for an example, i knew the divorcing couple since their dating days, i still remember the husband could wait hours after hours for the then girl( back then the girl was not that keen in him) and would woe her untill he got her,, so what happen to that love and passion anymore?

A husband cannot say this to defend his mischief," my wife keeps nagging and nagging and nagging and i cannot take it " without examining himself what causes her nag, and the wife must learn as well to voice up the displeasure in nicer ways

Note : the 74 years old lady is my mother, the victim is one of my sisters and i am sad....

P/S : We don't need an exotic holiday to rekindle the fire, if we can't even stoke the fire in our own bedroom, right?