Sometimes it really boggles me as how open can married couple truly be, can we really confide in our spouse, can we really be open to each other? or do we just manfest through our moods and feelings hoping that our partner can see through our moods (good or bad) in determining our needs and wants, give you a few good examples.
My good lady friend once told me she did not even know how her husband was doing in his job untill the housing loan ran into several months in arrear, the apartment maintenence fees also had been many months behind schedule. When i asked her why didn't she ask her husband then before the "screw up" she said she tried but the husband had always been non-chalant.
And even for me, during the past one week i have not been "intimate" with my lovely wife as i really wanted to, but presumption was that she needed a lot of rest for speedy recovery, everything else was secondary but deep inside of me was that really what i really thought? I mean i really wanted her to have good rest, but could i be telling her during this time my want?
I read in the sunday Star yesterday, it was startling enough to learn that through the internet we have begun to see the rise of cheating husbands and even the cheating wives. Wonder why it is so?
If two can lie naked, what else is there can be not talked out loud, just wonder again and am learning still.
P/S : We only need one mouth to talk but two ears to listen... God knows our weekness.