Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Yours Effeminately..............................

I guess by now, most of my friends know that i blog, they used to ask me why i blogged, i used to tell them i just loved sharing and writing, that's all. But so far the worst comment i heard from a dear friend about my blogging was that he told me it made me kind of sissy not because i blog, it was more because of my contents.

My contents of my blog make me look sissy? I wonder why my dear friend said that albeit jokingly, he said only women bloggers would blog the way akin to mine, mostly family oriented, relationship and lady's stuff. Men bloggers to him are supposed to be focus in specific subjects like finacial thingy, SOPO(social political) and sometimes on foods and technology. My blog to him is kind of effeminate and sissy in its nature.

I was aghast by my friend's comment and i was wondering, could we be framed into a certain stereotypes by the way of our sharing, expressing and writing ?

If i talk about gayism, does that make me less a man,more of gay? If i talk about sex, does that make me a sex weirdo? hahahah, i just wonder.

Anyway, this is just another piece of me sharing about my blogging experience, soon i will be celebrating my 2nd annivesary of my Blog Birthday.

P/S : I might be sissy in some ways but i am a Man in all the ways.

23 comments:

  1. well..i'm really sorry to know there are some ppl who doesn't know what blogging really means.

    =.=|||

    u have a nice day~~

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  2. Yes, definitely sissy! have you studied how many men's comments than women's comments you have all the time?

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  3. based on past experience, that lady cleffairy will come and defend him (and his manhood) again..

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  4. why your friend like that? nvm la.. as long as we like to read, and we enjoy coming here... :D

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  5. Duh... I dun need to defend him la... you think I'm so free issit? And by the way, ball-less bastard... if your English is up to par to International standard, you would notice that i don't always see eye to eye with Eugene in regards of some matters. Either you go back to school or learn English, or come to my place and learn some.

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  6. Alamak, habis my blog lagi teruk lah.....recipes and food....ha ha ha!

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  7. hahahah.. dont worry la.. you cannot please everyone. but i've read/heard this from somewhere.. HAHAHAHAH..

    REAL MEN dont blog one.. HAHA.. maybe refering for those super musculur, dont shave type.. XD

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  8. U r one woman's man..
    a good shining example to all men..
    never fear for we are here!

    MJ's song.. "U r not alone, we are here with u..." that applies to all bloggers, men or ladies alike..
    so carry on blogging!!

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  9. ya, anon,
    come and show your face! at least, cleff has balls... real balls, ok?

    (i can't show my face, because i'm a 100% real woman, no balls)

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  10. Sissy or not, you write from your heart. If ppl dun like it, dun read lah rite? We simply can't please everyone... so just stay true to urself and keep on doing what u love best... blogging from the heart.. :)

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  11. don't f*cking care about whatsoever your friend & others said, as long as you enjoy sharing your thoughts :) i'm sure you don't blog to please others. plus, we can't please everyone on earth.

    i still lap all your blog posts :))) keep it up ok!

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  12. hahaha many ppl dont know much abt the blogging world :) Just do what u intended to do from the start and keep up with it :)

    U are very MAN I'm sure ;)

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  13. Hey guys,dont worry no big deal lah, it was just another thought that came to mind,so felt like blogging it about it,so you got this...

    we all love to blog, dont we?

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  14. yeah rite, cleffairy has balls. She chooses to be incognito while calling others ball-less. Bravo indeed. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? How is my english today? (totally irrelevant!haha!)

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  15. well, as for me, i have been through that as well. but i am sorry for them, they just don't really know the essence of blogging, and what it really means for us..

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  16. I write anything I want..why I do blogging? I'm not earning any extra money or need attention. I just loved to share..talking about anything thats come in my mind. That the reason why I did not choose specific theme. I'M No One..means I Do For Myself..with intentation to share to everyone to make us ONE in common..Sharing in writing, reviewing, improving, globaling (got such word ka?..hehehe)

    Btw, as a blogger..free to receive any comments la coz from there we know..people do read our blog hehehe...

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  17. Aisay.. you are the new age man la. who are comfortable expressing in words. Let them talk .. cause it is cheap.

    hehe...

    Thanks for keeping my add.

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  18. I am in your camp, bro. Don't think talk about family, lady's stuff will make you sissy. It will make you a true man.

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  19. You are not sissy lah, you just blog right from your heart. A true blogger.

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  20. don't take it personally of what yr friends' said. just be yrself.

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  21. I LOVE UR BLOG (UR OPINION) JUZ THE WAY THEY ARE!

    hehehe sorry for the capslock,i juz dont like ppl with negativity. i kinda carried away there hahaha

    keep on blogging Eugene!

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  22. some people are like that loh. Mulut gatal one. Ignore him la

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  23. Post one macho pic of yourself then! hahahaaha

    We all have our fair share of supporters and haters. Just know that I'm a fan. :)
    +Ant+

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