A true life's account that i just got to know of a lady friend of mine, i was so surprised when i heard it from another friend,then as a good friend, i confirmed with her,and she admitted........
They both work in banking sector,albeit different branches,the husband is the bank officer in a bigger branch,and he is required to sometimes go back to work on saturday and sunday, incidentally there is another female staff of his coincidentally always gets assigned on same dates with him.
Rumor started flying around, my lady friend heard about it, didn't seek clarification from her hubby, but when the rumor went a little berserk, my lady friend could not contain her suspicion anymore,then seeking clarification.
Just one statement from the husband, " if you trust me, dont ask this nonsense" and he furnished her with no explaination or any form of assurance. Slowly, they plunged into "cold-war" ,with her suspicion hanging above her and his non-chalant attitude that eventually aggravated the situation.
She asked for a hiatus of separation, he conceded and it has been a year and a half now. Many of their friends have talked to them about it, both refused to concede. One side says why should i clarify when there is no merit to, the other side says, please assure me of my suspicion.
Now she told me, she was considering a divorce for she said she didnt like to be in this situation anymore, but the fact remains the truth, funnily there is nothing fishy about her hubby with the said lady, but she said it was kind of too late already.
Q)Why cant a lady trust the man when she is asked to?
Q)Why cant the man assure the woman that there is no call for worries?
Q)Why cant they reconcile when there is really nothing happened?
For the first time, i dont understand............
Damn the rumor mongers.
P/S : Beyond physical and biological, there is emotional, make it all SPOKEN please................