Remember the famous cliche,"hungry man is the angry man," that was exactly what happened to me last night, so story goes............................
My lovely wife had a dinner last night with her colleague from Singapore, plan was fixed that i would cook for my two wonderful sons, so in the evening i called her to confirm what had been fixed, on top of that she told me she would be back before 9 evening, so i told her to buy back food for me.
All done with the children,sat down, watched the news and suddenly my tummy was grumbling away, it was already 8.54 pm, still no sight of my lovely wife with my food. I decided to call her, twice i did, no respond, she only answered on my fourth call, i asked where she was, she said on the way (" on the way" is the word that i loathe so much" angrily asked her again where she was, she told me she was still in town, i told her i'd get my own food,rudely i hung up on her.
When i came back from food, she was already at home, and i was still furiously mad at her, and i wanted an apology but she was so oblivious to it, so i guess i had to do what i had to do, i told her to say "sorry" and i told her how i felt at that particular moment (when my tummy was grumbling) i felt like being ignored by her.
I never like to retire from the evening with anger in my heart, and as husband and wife, we sometimes thought that our spouse ought to know how we felt, sadly most of times it was not the case.
l chose to tell her how i felt instead of feeling mad at her, because i love her therefore i dont have the heart to be mad at her.
Q)What do you when you are mad at your spouse, do you sweep it under the carpet?
P/S : If you want to be heard, please open that damn mouth, and if you want to be understood, open that damn mouth even bigger.........