I really wish i could ask my eldest son Jovial to sing and repeat this line." he aint heavy, he's my brother" untill he realizes that he really has only one brother in the whole wide world.
Sometimes i really lose my cool at him, when he is trying to be funny with his lil brother, (Marvell). I know you might say it is kind of small time sibling quarrel but i am afraid that the feeling would turn out to be sour from his lil one against him and versa versus, because now if you were to ask the lil one if he likes his older brother,meekly he will say no, and that breaks my heart.
Personally speaking, i dont enjoy good sibling bond with my brother and sisters, it is not that we are not on speaking term or anything like that but we are just not close as siblings should be, and this is one of my regrets, i have tried to foster a better sibling bond, i have failed thus far, so it always bothers me when i see that my Jovial and my Marvell alwasys fight, albiet not pyshically.
I dont want to be a father who raises a set of warring brothers,(not that serious lah) but i want to instill in them since small about brotherhood.
Q) Please share with me, what should i do or share with me your experience, ya?
P/S : Please teach me and i am learning